I feel that I love my boyfriend of 5 years but I also seem to be easily agrivated by him. Intamacy ... well I have been making nearly impossible for it to happen. These feelings are fairly new and getting progressivly worse. We have a 11 month old daughter and I feel overwhelmed a bit (i have 2 older daughters) and he seems to be adding to my exhaustion.
2006-11-25 22:03:28 · 13 answers · asked by lilmsmooody 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes it is very possible to love some one so much but then hate them at the same time. Deep down inside you love them so much and want them so bad to be a part of your life. But then all the crazy and stupid stuff that they do makes you so mad at them. Makes you feel like you are just not good enough for them. And so there for you hate them for doing you the way they do you. It's like can they not open their eyes up and see what they have right here in front of them and be there for you. I know that there is times that you can't even stand to be around them at all, it's like what is the point of even trying, then when they see that maybe oops something is wrong..they pour on the charm just enough to get you back on their side again. Love and hate!!!
2006-11-27 01:01:53 · answer #1 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since true love is caring for another's well being, hate would not enter the picture But often desire is confused as love, then the person we desire may not be acting in a way that is compatible with what we want so hate starts to enter the picture. Pure love would recognize the bad behaviors as dysfunctional & would still hope for the person to travel a better path but hate would not be a part of it. Hate is the frustration or annoyance you experience when the object of your desire is opting to go another path.
2016-03-29 09:20:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes l believe it is possible. Although if you really love him it is not true hatred that you feel, it is more frustration and anger, we just get so annoyed that it feels like hate at the time.
2006-11-25 22:30:42 · answer #3 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aggravation is not hatred. Obviously there is a major lack of communication between the two of you...I suggest you both seek counseling.
2006-11-25 22:18:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I my humble opinion: NO.
Love won't allow hate, and hate won't allow love. So you probably don't have either. You probably have some kind of confusing emotional connection. Selfishness could be involved too. Good luck in the future. I hope you find love.
2014-02-15 10:04:26 · answer #5 · answered by M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how to answer your question in regard to your added details. But it is certainly easy to have a love/hate relationship with your ex.
2006-11-25 23:50:01 · answer #6 · answered by neutral 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible to feel mixed emotions toward a person.
2006-11-25 22:20:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you hate him, ure stressed and tired of ur family life, i guess u need a breather, unwind and if u can u can both take a vacation together just the two of you, sometimes we also need to refurnish what we already have to nurture it more.
good luck
2006-11-25 22:08:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, thats how you know you love him. the way you know that he's the one is by making it all better, change you or him or them or all or suck it up cause that's what every one else on the planet is doing
2006-11-25 22:06:42 · answer #9 · answered by purplemonkey6662000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is possible. but we have committments so the hate is not supposed to become overwhelming.
2006-11-26 02:11:51 · answer #10 · answered by Aurora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋