Marriage & Divorce - 23 November 2006

2006-11-23 16:54:03 · 10 answers · asked by catchernkeeper 2

About 2 years before I met my wife, she had an abortion. To this day, it tears her up. It's her biggest regret. Because of TV and other things, everytime the abortion issue comes up, there's an awkward silence. I'm very pro-life, but I don't condem her obviously. But I want to talk to her about it, without upsetting her, and I don't know how.

2006-11-23 16:44:47 · 21 answers · asked by theodore r 3

I never knew my love could end up in so much complications..i love a girl for a very long time and she loves me as well..we so cant live without each other...at first her parents werent ready to accept me but she went through hell, suicide attempts, etc and finally convinced them..but my parents are not changing there views about marriage with a girl of an almost different religion (i am a sunni and she is a shia) the girls has a proposal coming up from her aunt and her father is like if i dont get my parents in a couple of weeks time..he is accepting that proposal. We dont want to against our parents but cant accept their decisions either. Things are getting worst coz we cant live without each other and dont take it as a bluff if we end up committing suicides. I desperatly need help in it because the time is running out.Please Help!!!!

2006-11-23 16:39:51 · 5 answers · asked by S1nN3r 1

My husband and I have financial trouble but we can make it. Its just we have no extra "spending" money. He wants to move back into his parents house and I want to finish up the lease here at our apartment. He said he's leaving no matter what, if I dont go with him then its over. Then if I do go with him I have to "listen to him" and not "argu" with him. Basically I cannot speak my mind. He does not care what I want to do. Should I stay at my apartment or should i go with him and risk my feeling.

2006-11-23 16:29:39 · 31 answers · asked by cutiepie21106 1

be specific, per week or month

2006-11-23 16:27:11 · 13 answers · asked by gdeach 3

I m frm india, I got married nine months back..i love my husband he is a great guy...i live with his family -his mom, grand mom and cuz younger bro (he stays wit us coz his dad died and his mom works and my hubby wants to look after him, he goes home to his mom on the weekends).....and he has soo many frends tht i cant even count....m tired of sharing him all the time..i need him for myself sumtimes...this last week my in laws were out of town and i was soo excited coz i thought i'll have the weekend wit him alone...but his grandmom is cuming home 2morow .we cant go out of town or sumthing coz we dont have tht kinda money at d moment..m goin crazy and he cant seem 2 understand how sick i m getting of being the gud wife and not getting one small thing i crave for-his time.wot shud i do? i want to run away honestly..gimme sum suggetions, i wannna give dis marriage my best shot.4 ne1 who says m making a mountain out of a mole hill, its a a new city 4 me, i have no family or frends here.

2006-11-23 16:26:51 · 5 answers · asked by danny's mom 3

but why it seems that men are the one who wants it more, and women look at it as a 2nd or 3rd...xth in their list ?

2006-11-23 16:19:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

doesn't matter how long you stay with a person before getting married? does that help marriage to be successful? dosen't matter if it was 1 month or years?

which one is better, staying for short time or longer time before getting married?

2006-11-23 16:16:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-23 16:13:44 · 14 answers · asked by my2luvsJK 1

My husband is in the military and stationed in MS, he doesnt call me until 9pm, my time 11 his. When we do talk he doesnt have alot to say other than im so tired, im busy, im tired, blah blah blag
its teh smae thing everynigjt. its like hes not interested in me anymore, i try to tell him but he gets pissed. what should i do, what should i think?
we have 2 kids together and it doesnt seem like he cares to much about them either.

2006-11-23 16:10:50 · 20 answers · asked by renee h 1

2006-11-23 16:07:35 · 12 answers · asked by Chula 4

This is an honest question so please do not responed unless you have valuable advice. My husband and I get along o.k. but we fight a great deal and I think he may be an alcoholic. He drinks all the time. I dont know when enough is enough. Is there anyone out there that has gone through the same thing. We also have a 1 1/2 year old daughter to worry about if we do break up

2006-11-23 16:07:19 · 15 answers · asked by CookFrNW 3

in boy/girl friend relationship, who gets the most fun out of it, who gets the most beneficial out of it. the man or the woman?

2006-11-23 16:05:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here is my situation. I'm a 27 year old male. I've been married for two and a half years; together with her for six years. The problem is we have never had sex as long as we've been together. We've fooled around until she gets off but does nothing to reciprocate. She claims she is "scared" of sex but will not see a psychologist. While I love her very much and otherwise our relationship is fine, I find myself discontent enough to the point where I have met people online for sex. Obviously I am not happy in a sexless marriage because I wouldn't be doing that if I were. We never agreed to this before getting married and anytime I bring the topic up she starts a fight and I end up having to apologize. She knows nothing of my affairs and thinks everything is just fine between us. I am unhappy but have a hard time justifying leaving her just over sex. Does anybody have advice? I very badly want to leave and end this while I'm still young, but don't want to hurt her. What can I do?

2006-11-23 16:00:19 · 12 answers · asked by Slim B 1

2006-11-23 15:58:48 · 16 answers · asked by marlika h 1

2006-11-23 15:56:42 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-23 15:54:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am married...

2006-11-23 15:48:35 · 15 answers · asked by Gracy 1

I just found out that I'm pregnant. I'm pretty sure I know who the father is but I'm having a big problem. My fiance was travelling on business for a whole month, and I got a little lonely.

I ended up hanging out with some African American friends and one of them got me pregnant. I'm pretty sure I even know which one.

My problem is that I really want to marry Hershel, he's a lawyer, he's a nice guy, and he's really well off. He has a great house and 3 nice cars, and always buys me lots of wonderful gifts.

The biggest problem is that he hates black people and is always using the n-word. When I use it it's because they are friends.

All I want to do is just make sure the baby comes out white so he thinks its his. How can I make sure my baby comes out white?

2006-11-23 15:44:54 · 31 answers · asked by unbrainwashed_christian 1

where after a few years you really just freak out thinking that you never be with anyone else and knowing that you will never experience youth again?

2006-11-23 15:33:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

its highly likely that the person will do the same thing to you..how does everyone else feel.?

2006-11-23 15:28:22 · 17 answers · asked by Meia 3

2006-11-23 15:23:10 · 10 answers · asked by BAKKUS 2

I know he loves it... but it drives me crazy. Should I complain
(some MORE) or just let him have his way with it. what do you all think?

2006-11-23 15:20:40 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

together 5 years married 1.5. left my first wife for her, now i have moved out and don't know what to do. i feel better physically since i left, is this a sign??help

2006-11-23 15:14:55 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

She was outside on our picnic bench and i woke up hearing it actually... I was so upset to see that it was two black men and a white guy all with her at the same time filling every hole!!! We were together for 5 years!!!! How could this happen.. We had a child and I thought it was so great... Can this ever work out or should I move on she said she only loves me and never again will she do this...

2006-11-23 15:07:14 · 39 answers · asked by WanttobeaGiAgain 1

im 26 and sex has never been a big thing with me ever, before we got hitched he knew this as he was friends with my then bf...anyways, that relationship ended and then WE started going out, he knew i had an ultra low sex drive then, but he claims we did it all the time and I know we didnt!
Now he makes me feel bad or calls me a selfish ***** all the time because I dont have a sex drive...I dont even care to find out why...what should I do?
We have done things in the past to appease his sexual appetite, wrong things...anyways, we have kids and I have even thought about ending this but he is being a dick about that end of things...i dont know what to do, im only 26.

2006-11-23 15:05:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

how long does a wife put up with no sex from her husband? We have been married for 11 years and it started about five years ago. It is not a medical problem, he has been to the dr. I am lucky to have sex with my husband once every three months. It has been really hard for me to deal with this because I have a strong sex drive. he is not seeing anyone else. please help me decide what I should do! I am in my thirties.

2006-11-23 15:00:12 · 19 answers · asked by giamc 1

2006-11-23 14:51:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

recently seperated from hubby after 24 yrs of marriage seems he fell in love with some 21 yr old chick he is 42 which makes me sick........he acts like i dont exsist even though we have 4 children together he passes along things to say to me thru my children which is so childish .....i have no idea why he acts this way.......he cheated on me he left.........why is he so angry with me?

2006-11-23 14:48:53 · 23 answers · asked by kelly h 1

2006-11-23 14:48:41 · 19 answers · asked by madviking 1