I never knew my love could end up in so much complications..i love a girl for a very long time and she loves me as well..we so cant live without each other...at first her parents werent ready to accept me but she went through hell, suicide attempts, etc and finally convinced them..but my parents are not changing there views about marriage with a girl of an almost different religion (i am a sunni and she is a shia) the girls has a proposal coming up from her aunt and her father is like if i dont get my parents in a couple of weeks time..he is accepting that proposal. We dont want to against our parents but cant accept their decisions either. Things are getting worst coz we cant live without each other and dont take it as a bluff if we end up committing suicides. I desperatly need help in it because the time is running out.Please Help!!!!
2006-11-23 16:39:51 · 5 answers · asked by S1nN3r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to runaway! Read Romeo and Juliet. See what happened there.
2006-11-23 16:54:45 · answer #1 · answered by cruddypantz 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sorry to tel you but your parents are very ignorant. It's just a religion why do they have to make this such a big deal? Why can't she have her own religion and you have yours? If you truely love and cared for this girl like you said than you should do what you think is best for the two of you. Yes even if your parents are unhappy. They will learn to get over it soon enough and if they choose not to than it's their lost! Your parents are not being fair to your gf. I got married to a man who's religion is not the same as mine. He's parents were against it at the begining. My husband step down and said he will married me regardless...Either they give me a chance to get to know me or we will elope. They gave in, and open up to me. We're married for 2 yrs now.. This is not the end of the world. You two have each other. Don't use suicided to think your problem will be solved. There will be alot more problems along the way and it's normal. you two will learn to be strong and be there one another. Afterall, it's what marriage is all about having support for one another.....
2006-11-23 18:26:30 · answer #2 · answered by uniqaznmeg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will be blunt so pls. if you feel offense to what I have to say, I apologize to you. Your should not give a damn what anyone thinks of your future bride. If you, give this woman up at your parents request you are foolish. This woman gives you life and happiness. Your life and happiness supercede that of anyone else. My wife is a different religion and from a different culture. I cannot imagine losing her over GOD. People die over GOD. For crying out loud elope, run away and be happy. Love is powerful. Peace to you. I wish you a lifetime of happiness. Remeber, there is always a way.
2006-11-23 17:00:37 · answer #3 · answered by Your #1 fan 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-04 07:39:30 · answer #4 · answered by bugenhagen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW, THAT'S HARD. TALK TO THEM IN OPEN HEART AND TELL THEM YOUR PLANS TOO EITHER GOOD OR BAD SO THEY KNOW YOUR NOT KIDDING.I HOPE EVERYTHING WILL TURN THEIR HEAD AND THINK TWICE.GOOD LUCK.
2006-11-23 16:46:57 · answer #5 · answered by jocelyn o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋