I just found out that I'm pregnant. I'm pretty sure I know who the father is but I'm having a big problem. My fiance was travelling on business for a whole month, and I got a little lonely.
I ended up hanging out with some African American friends and one of them got me pregnant. I'm pretty sure I even know which one.
My problem is that I really want to marry Hershel, he's a lawyer, he's a nice guy, and he's really well off. He has a great house and 3 nice cars, and always buys me lots of wonderful gifts.
The biggest problem is that he hates black people and is always using the n-word. When I use it it's because they are friends.
All I want to do is just make sure the baby comes out white so he thinks its his. How can I make sure my baby comes out white?
2006-11-23 15:44:54 · 31 answers · asked by unbrainwashed_christian 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Blah, blah, blah! Stop making up bs questions! Idiot!
2006-11-23 15:53:26 · answer #1 · answered by jdhs 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you can't! Second, if you really are in love with this guy then why did you cheat on him? You didn't really say you loved him..you talked about his nice job, cars, house...what he buys you? So not sure you love him instead of what he can offer you.
Also if the African American people you were hanging out with are really your friends then why would you want to be with someone who hates black people?? And I am a white woman with lots of American African (black) friends but I don't have sex with them..except my husband. Also black people can use the n word with each other...its private and they don't feel white people have earned the right to use it. So I would be careful using it. It should be a taboo word for you. Again as for the baby you must decide if you want to keep it. There is no way to change the race of a baby, and if the child will be brought into a home without love, its best to give the child up. I won't tell you to get an abortion because I don't believe in them except in extreme cases of maybe the mother will die if have the baby or maybe rape cases.
My best advice is if you believe in God, pray about it. May God bless you.
2006-11-23 16:51:38 · answer #2 · answered by Joanne J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't. You slept around and you're "pretty sure" you know which of these other guys is the father?
You'll be doing your fiance a great favor if the baby is obviously not his.
Does the phrase "You reap what you sow." have any meaning for you?
On top of that, you're ignorant for thinking you can actually change a baby's race once it's conceived.
Yeah, good luck with that.
2006-11-23 15:52:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I can't work out which is worse - the fact that you want to bleach your baby in the ultimate act of bigotry I can imagine, or whether you "love" your fiance so much that you want to dupe him into thinking he's the father of a child he is not. Further, that you think you are some kind of liberal-minded individual and yet willing to put up with an admittedly racist partner.
Put your baby up for adoption as far from you as is possible - maybe it will have a chance of being raised by a loving family
2006-11-23 15:58:06 · answer #4 · answered by Kble 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Well lets see if you want a white baby then you should have slept with a white man.
Your a horrible person! Not only racist but asking to try to change the race of the baby so you can blame the pregnancy on the rich dude. Same on you.
2006-11-23 19:30:25 · answer #5 · answered by wondermom 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There's no medical or scientific way of changing your baby's race. That was decided at the point of conception. If you aren't willing to be honest and face up to your fiance' you have to decide if you'd rather have an abortion or put the baby up for adoption. I don' t think a future with this guy is what you want, or what he needs. You wouldn't have strayed otherwise. Why would you want to deceive him if your intention is to marry him? There's going to be fallout whatever avenue you take.
2006-11-23 18:14:20 · answer #6 · answered by holdengal81 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well I don't expect 10 points from this but I can't help but comment.............
You couldn't be a bigger whore if Webster had to define YOU.
"Webster" would be a dictionary, and I am certain you wouldn't know that. In your book Webster is probally a TV show!
You are the ultimate in nasty! You give a bad name to the word TRASH.
I would say to marry Hershel ( the lawyer) so he can sue you for impersonating a woman.
Get your African American friends to all come over and play
"who's yo Daddy"
Tell your racist lawyer bullsh@t friend that you are very tan and the baby might be too..................
Then plug that hole of deception up!
All you want to do is make sure the baby comes out "white"? You must be like 12 years old or the biggest idiot on earth!
I would say that all YOU want to do is make sure somebody else pays for your f'ed up thinking!
All you want is to get get PAID...............
Whores are paid......dates are laid. Mothers are made!
Dedication, loyalty, commitment and honesty are NOT your strong points!
2006-11-23 16:22:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anna M 5 · 2⤊ 3⤋
How previous are you? curiously you have lots to income. you could not in any way, shape, or style substitute the race of your fetus (unborn toddler). while you're white and the daddy is white, the toddler would be white. while you're white and the daddy is black or some race different than white, the toddler would be mixed. it somewhat is the way it works.
2016-10-13 00:21:59 · answer #8 · answered by schwalm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant put the genie back in the bottle. you should have kept your legs closed and been faithful but noooo, you had to be a harlot and screw the first thing with a dick you could find. its your problem not ours. you come on here trashing the way some people believe call our God a fraud, and try to defame the son of God, an now you want sympathy! i read all that crap you wrote previously. you think we care how you feel or what your going through, you psycho? we don't pay the piper and grow up.
2006-11-23 16:24:35 · answer #9 · answered by Thumbs down me now 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you serious? You sound like someone I used to know, Really cool with black people to their faces but a racist just underneath the surface....You got what you deserved, but that baby didnt', I dont believe in abortion, but I would do that baby a huge favor and give it up for adoption with a letter for it to read one day explaining how you wanted to change it's color because you were too weak to stand up for yourself and be your own individual.
Oh, and are black people not capable of owning 3 cars a great house and beaucoup money to spend obliviously? Please grow up, SOON
2006-11-23 15:48:02 · answer #10 · answered by Not In Kansas? 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
you can't change the race of your baby. if you want tha baby then do whats right for you and that child. what you did behind your fiances back was very wrong and I feel that you should let him know and just go from there. Good Luck
2006-11-23 16:05:35 · answer #11 · answered by lilangel 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋