in boy/girl friend relationship, who gets the most fun out of it, who gets the most beneficial out of it. the man or the woman?
2006-11-23 16:05:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i think both can if you put in equal amounts of work. if your bf always does suff for you and you never return any favors or anything then you would be the one benifiting. a relationship takes two too work. you both need to put in equal amounts fo work.(making time to see eachother, switiching paying for dinners and movies, not always him!) lol sometimes my bf a i fight over who's going to pay! i think both benifit equally if they pu in equal amounts of work to keep the relationship going =)
2006-11-23 16:08:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am assuming the question comes from an erroneous belief that men get everything out of a relationship and women get nothing. It's like women are doing men a favor by getting into a relationship. That's bunk. Women are just as insecure as men, perhaps more so, and are equally gratified when they have someone to be with. Men need sex, but so do women. Men need companionship, but so do women. Men need to have a partner to do things with, but so do women. Women are inherently social and need a partner to share things with, but men are the same way.
The answer is that it's symboitic. Both get something out of it. And humans are designed to be together in this way. Those who don't have a partner are often lonely. So the answer is neither person, despite women complaining that they do more work in the relationship.
2006-11-23 16:15:50 · answer #2 · answered by Erik B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stable question! i might have a difficulty if the "chum" became right into a guy. pay attention me out. enable's say the female i became into going out with became into very pleasing and intensely standard. and she or he has this guy chum who's "constantly" there for her. opportunities are high, i does not like that in the time of any respect. with the aid of fact i think of that's confusing for a guy and woman (exceedingly a hottie) to be stable friends without the guy having a reliable "activity" in her. probably the only clarification why the female and the guy chum are not relationship is by technique of the fact the female does not like him "that" way. So the guy hangs around with the aid of fact that's greater effective having her in his existence as "friends" then no longer having her in his existence in any respect. each and every of the mutually as, he's only waiting for an taking off. So, i think of this guy "chum" might attempt to dissuade her from me or the different guy she might desire to date. Does that make any experience in any respect? :-)
2016-10-04 07:38:12 · answer #3 · answered by bugenhagen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should be an equal partnership, so I don't know that there is a "most beneficial".
2006-11-23 16:19:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
defiantly the man. women end up with no rights if a man decide to dump her.
2006-11-23 16:11:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think both of them will got da benefit.....y?????becoz in this relationship,both need to have or need to understand each other...so if they r clashed,one will sad or maybe she or he can find da new one....
2006-11-23 16:11:17 · answer #6 · answered by alif n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is equal unless one of them is defective
2006-11-23 16:08:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋