I am married...
2006-11-23 15:48:35 · 15 answers · asked by Gracy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Gracy, I am one of the guys who is into this. I was alone outside my country and boredom was setting into me!!! Thats when I logged on to yahoo chat and a lady walked into my life. She was an indian too and was alone facing the same situation i was in. The life afterwards was a roller coaster, filled with fun and we were in love. After six months I had to leave back for India as my job was done in that country. We had a bad time after that and we used call eachother daily. One day she got married to a boy whom had earlier loved and I wanted to distance myself away from her.
She went back abroad and used to write mails about how much she loves me and she used to say that she gets suicidal thots into her mind because she missed me.
I had a tough time at home because my wife had a doubt about my relatioship with her.
Eventually I managed to get a job in that country and crossed the seas just because I wanted to stay with her.
Things began to change after that, I could see in her eyes that she was troubled by my presence. I did not see the glitter she used to have. I could feel that she missed me nomore.
She was living in her aunts place and one day we were caught by the maidservant when I was at her aunts home. Lucky, we were sitting far apart on a couch and discussing something. The maid servant started gossiping about her and thats when she called me up and told me that it is better we stop it.
I tried to keep myself away from her. But I was troubled about the reason for having quit a good job in India just because of her and within a month, I get a message from her that we better stop. I was devastated. I wanted to die....I cried the whole week and then I called her asking for a reason for having dragged me here only to be shunned.
She replied back saying that she is scared of the consequences.
I understood that she was selfish. Now I am trying to reconcile to the situation i am in.
So, think before you jump. Have a good time, bye
Ajai
2006-11-23 21:09:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, the number could be very large because this is taken as harmless 'fun' and good leisure time activity by a lot of people. As far as the quality is concerned, these should not be considered very seriously and these are as such not long lasting. In any case, not recommended for the married persons as such because these are distractions and could as well cause some damage to the institution of marriage.
No harm, if both the induldging persons are clear that the relationship is purly platonic, non commital and most importantly devoid of emotions. That means, it is just a romantic straying to purge certain feelings only. No physical involvement or even yearning for it.
Caution: Not to be be addicted to - habit formation is too bad and could turn a person even maniac.
2006-11-23 18:06:43 · answer #2 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Last week i read in a news paper where it was clearly stated that the birth rate is reducing and the reason is that people are stressed at work and do not have time for sex.
They do not have any problem still they are not able to get a kid and they seek for guidance which should happen natures way, at this stage i donot think other than some freeks do this.
2006-11-23 20:03:16 · answer #3 · answered by Mandev 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married couples relation mainly last for 10 to 20 years,depends on your character treated towards him or her....but the best is for the whole life....just have to know each other more deeply than the parents do.....show love and responsibility.....as a wife do the duty as a wife,as a husband do the duty as a husband....
2006-11-23 16:02:57 · answer #4 · answered by eve 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a couple who frequently play on cam with other couples and singles, I can assure you, there is never a short supply of willing participants. It is just internet fun and rarely tranfers to real life experience. It is just something to make things a bit more exciting. We have cammed with one couple for the last 2 years.
2006-11-23 16:32:22 · answer #5 · answered by MrNiceGuy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I figure there are thousands doing that every day to have some sort of escape from the reality of routine. I guess there is something intriguing about fantasy and the internet is a place where you can be all those tihngs you never really had guts enough to pursue.
2006-11-23 15:59:38 · answer #6 · answered by G/M P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For over a 12 months... and nevertheless happening. although, i wager i'm no longer so pleased with it. i respect him and that i depended on him previously it began. He became my mentor and perfect pal and one element brought about yet another. i presumed he became going to go away his spouse... yet I actually have discovered they by no ability do and now i respect a guy who will by no ability be able to provide me what i favor from him. I even haven't any perfect to ***** because i'm hurting his spouse who isn't something yet possibility free in all of this and his 2 children who're his life. I dont understand a thanks to be so cavalier about someones family contributors... i wager perchance that's because he's...
2016-11-29 10:11:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gracy, my dear friend.
Do you differentiate between reality and illusion.
You can fantasise on Internet. Why only have affairs with married couple ? You can do it with young girls, matured ladies, gays, lesbians and so on.
BUT BUT.......
Can you figure out their gender !!!!
This is only fantasy. Enjoy.........., as long as you want !!!
2006-11-23 16:18:34 · answer #8 · answered by ga ga 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many. People think online relationship is okay. But imagine the other "face less" friend could be your own husband/wife or brother/sister...
Fiedility is about both online and offline...
2006-11-23 17:21:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be 5%. Its fun and get lost in a day .
2006-11-23 16:56:50 · answer #10 · answered by ganesh dubey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋