2006-11-23 16:13:44 · 14 answers · asked by my2luvsJK 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get rid of the loser.
2006-11-23 16:22:07 · answer #1 · answered by ♥TEENYTINY♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF A MAN WANTS YOU
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change = yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. They don't respect women or children. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
2006-11-23 19:07:11 · answer #2 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that he is cheating on you every year because you are allowing him to do so. I know that it is hard to get out of a relationship when you really care about someone, but you need to think about your health. What could he possibly pass on to you, even if you practice safe sex 100% of the time. Is it really worth your life?! Scary! What is it that you truly love about him if he does this to you every year?
2006-11-23 16:47:03 · answer #3 · answered by tatesgr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he cheats every year b/c he is an immature loser that can get away with it and he knows it. you have let him treat you like ****. well enough already leave his ***. don't you deserve better? why are you settling for a loser that doesn't love you or respect you. he doesn't want you. i know this is harsh but why would you want someone who doesn't want you? pick yourself up and get rid of him and never settle for any guy like this. there is a guy out there that will love you and respect you and treat you the way you deserve. get rid of him. hes not worth all this heartache. let him go and slut around maybe he will catch an std. lol. good luck to you.
2006-11-23 16:49:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you saying that he only cheats on you once a year? Even at that that is one time too many. Don't understand what you mean by every year.
2006-11-23 16:18:18 · answer #5 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cheats every year because you take him back each time.
Duh!
2006-11-23 16:22:05 · answer #6 · answered by L L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you live with someone who cheats on you and you know it? I simply can't figure it out...You should really do some serious thinking.......
2006-11-23 16:33:17 · answer #7 · answered by shanan g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure its just every year maybe thats the only time you know how about all the inbetween times. hmmm something to think about
2006-11-23 20:10:07 · answer #8 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you LET HIM and you put up with it.
Once can be an accident.
Twice isn't. But since you haven't left him, you're giving tacit approval to his actions.
2006-11-23 16:18:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because he needs a bit of rough,he craves to use a girl very hard and nasty.
2006-11-23 16:19:07 · answer #10 · answered by BAKKUS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you keep letting him! Kick him to the curb!
2006-11-23 16:19:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋