we are married for 6 years now, and we had a great sex life. but now she seems to dislike it more and more. i am concerned about her cheating on me i have a full time job. my sex skills are the same as used to be...
2006-11-23 02:18:34 · 6 answers · asked by Lucian S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do you take the time to give her good forplay? If sex is boring and the same old thing she may be getting board of it. Do you treat her extra special? I suggest taking your time when coming on to her, Try to start slowly by helping her with some of her house work (believe me nothing is sexier) Then offer to rub her feet or do something nice for her. When coming to the point of the day you would like to get it on, start slow. kiss her and her neck. Look at her body, carass her, take your tie, tell her how becautiful she is how much she means to you. Just pay attention to her and it is sure to get you far.
2006-11-23 02:23:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After six years of being together the sex tends do slow down. It could just mean that she is SECURE in the relationship. On the other hand if she acts as though you are repulsive or like you have the plague or something she could be CHEATING on you. What you have to do is ask yourself........are there any other reasons that would make you think she is cheating on you? Maybe she needs some SPICE in her life. Try something like getting an exotic room for the night with some of her favorite scented candles surrounding the outside of the Jacuzzi and some red wine in an ice bucket nice wine glasses...... you get the picture......oh yeah, Don't forget to bring some "slow love making music Cd's" and a CD player..... Do it like you mean it..... Don't be routine.
2006-11-23 10:48:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"My sex skills are the same as used to be."
That my friend, could be the problem. Maybe she is getting bored with the "usual" routine. Try to spice things up by trying new and exciting things. Ask her what she would like to try. Maybe you 2 can role play or have sex in other places besides the bedroom. Be creative to keep her interested. Good luck!
2006-11-23 10:23:59 · answer #3 · answered by Nep-Tunes 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This happens to everyone who is in a relationship.... you get to comfortable with one another.
Also, there are other factors, too. Is each person giving 100% to the relationship and not just 50/50? How is the communication? Are little children in the picture? Is someone on medications? Health issues?
For the most part, women won't stray as long as their emotional needs are met by their spouse. This is why communication is very very important.
2006-11-23 10:22:22 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is normal, just when the opportunity arrives try spicing it up and trying different things. Explore!
2006-11-23 10:42:44 · answer #5 · answered by vato 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is she going through menopause? if not just try to spice it up some. do something special, and never forget to change it up some!
good luck
2006-11-23 10:22:13 · answer #6 · answered by MedeivelReign 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋