my husband, though not always, but physically assualts me sometimes. He does say sorry the next day. This has happened a couple of times and every time he says sorry he says it wont happen again. what should i do now ??
2006-11-23 02:00:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
pack u bags and get gone
2006-11-23 02:53:37 · answer #1 · answered by heronshores 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you need to exercise caution, as this entire situation is going to be full of emotion. I understand your situation, its mentally and physically draining, when such things happen in life. At first, take a close look at yourself and understand, what perhaps could have attracted him, towards her more, than you. This is just a self assesment exercise and will come in handy, at some stage (I guess). Stage two, do you have some support at home, where someone will be able to understand the situation and will help you at home. This requires, machurity and skills, which should be handled with care. If so then this is the best way to tackle the issue, head on, along with support of someone, who can influence and support you and bring in normalcy. Stage three, there is no substitue to one-on-one open discussion with your hubby, when things are quite and, when both of you are in a mood, where you can enter into a converstation. See, if this can help and bring in some improvement to the overall situation. At last, if nothing works out, then you need to stand firm and not compromise yourself, where you dont have to get abused mentally or physically, for no fault of yours. If you belive, in almight, take him (her) into confidence and shoot that arrow (as I'd call as "Brahm Astra") and decide to part, once for all. Remember, this is going to be a lengthy process and you may have to wait, even for years, before its going to be legal. If you have made a wise decision, after taking almighty into confidence, I'm sure, your decision, can never go wrong. Good luck, Buddy!
2016-03-29 06:42:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know the answer to your question. Here is my answer though since you did ask for it. THE BALL-LESS BASTARD! Kick that fvcker in the balls and break a board over his head. Tell the bastard that if he touches you one more time that you are going to pull a Loraina Bobbit on him and cut his tiny penis off and throw it out the car window on a busy interstate. Tell him the next time he lays a hand of you, you will call the police and have him locked up and you won't bail his sorry *** out of jail. Stand up for yourself woman and don't take the abuse!!!!! Do you know how many men out there are looking for a quality woman yet can't find one? Oh and one last thing.....sue the dickweed for alimony and don't get remarried for a long long time.
2006-11-23 02:14:22 · answer #3 · answered by troll_house_kookies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait till he is out or asleep pack a few things and go. Bin your sim card and never look back.
It will be the best thing you have ever done.
It won't get better,he will never change he has proven that. You have given 1/2/3/4(what ever)Chance he still does it.He thinks that,he says sorry that's it forgotten about.
Go before it's too late.
Good Luck X
P.s I know how you feel,I've been there.
2006-11-23 02:21:29 · answer #4 · answered by Nic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should leave, dear. It won't be an easy thing to do and you should plan it carefully. You need to be prepared to confront a very difficult time with this violent man. Make sure you have a safe place to stay, find out how to get a restraining order, et cetera. Be safe, be smart, be ahead of him. You can do it, I know you can.
2006-11-23 02:06:44 · answer #5 · answered by suki's mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET OUT! This will continue to happen, with of course the constant apologies! Believe me, He will never change and YOU will be the one being as damaged as he already is! You deserve better & WILL find better. You need time with your friends now to discover what you really want in life, because now you should know what you don't want!
Take care of yourself!!
2006-11-23 02:08:45 · answer #6 · answered by oracle1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are an Indian, lodge a complaint in the nearest police station and get damages from him. He will forget assualting you.
2006-11-23 02:05:46 · answer #7 · answered by loveboy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He won't stop. It will get worse. You gotta get out of there. Or, have a friend do what I did my cousin's husband. He kept on beating her so I went over there and beat the crap out of him and told him next time he wanted to hit someone he can come find me. He never did it again to my knowledge.
2006-11-23 02:20:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are serious u already know the answer to your question. Ive been there and always an apology and the promise of never doing it again. Get out before buts too late. I stayed and put myself through hell and he put me in hospital.
2006-11-23 02:04:02 · answer #9 · answered by musickitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should meet a social planner, and try to organise a way to leave your husband and pursue a healthy and blossoming life.
Violence cannot be something you wipe off with a single "sorry".
Furthermore, if he repeats it, you are in danger. Leave him while you can.
2006-11-23 02:03:58 · answer #10 · answered by Virginie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This can't continue either divorce or anger management counseling for him and possibly marriage counseling for both of you. Don't take divorce lightly personally it sound like you love him and want to give him a chance. Let him know it has to stop and it's either counseling or the marriage.
2006-11-23 02:04:41 · answer #11 · answered by Big D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋