What do you do if someone flirts with your husband?

Answer 1

I think it would be interesting to all at the party if you two had it out in a good old fashioned mud-wrestling match.

Answer 2

I wouldn't care at first because I would be proud that other women are looking at my husband and thinks that he looks good enough to look at. At the end of the day, I know who's hand he'll still be holding, who's mouth he'll still be kissing, and who's bed he'll still be laying in. But if she continues and takes it to where she's obviously disrepecting me, I would have to check that b-yutch and let her know that she trying to step into unwelcomed territory and I'm the guard that's standing in her way. I would point to the reason why she's not wearing a wedding ring on her finger like me because these men know h--'s don't make good housewives. And that she wasting her time trying to spit game at my husband because he's very happy with what he's got. I mean why would she even father that my husband would settle for a bag of stankin' stale peanuts when he's got this full course tasty meal waiting at home. So unless she wants to get snatched up real quick, I would advice her to turn around and look the other way before I clock her in the jaw with my wedding ring.

Answer 3

You first explain to him that you would appreciate it if he did not encourage or endorse the flirting, but in a gentle and understanding way... tell him when it happens again to change the subject, because you can't change some other woman's actions, but you can change your husbands. If you are around when this happens, make an appearance next to your husband and make a comment that implies your marriage. She needs to know he is not available to her.

Answer 4

Nothing. There's nothing wrong with flirting. Your husband is coming home with you at the end of the night. He also knows what's acceptable and what's not.

Both my boyfriend and I are big flirts. But, we know how far it can go. The people we flirt with also always know that we're not single. If we feel threatened in any way, we let each other know. It works for us.

Answer 5

It depends on how strong the flirt is...I would just do something like say to my husband while the woman is standing there,
" Baby, we really need to make better decisions about were we spend our time, the women in here don't seem to have any respect for themselves, let's go find some worthy company."

Answer 6

Do you trust him? It's all about how you feel.
When someone flirts with my man, I might laugh at it, or if I felt it was a threat would go to him during the conversation, plant a big kiss on his lips eye him and in my eyes he would see the question about is she really worth it? I suspect he would walk away with me.
Men enjoy a bit of a tease from other women and I wouldn't deny my man that pleasure, but if the woman is making serious advances I would definately hurt her with words regarding her boring needy behavior.

Answer 7

Speak with them and ask them to please stop. If they do not listen and/or make light of what you are saying then let them know that you are not comfortable with this and would like it if they respect your wishes and stop this flirting immediately. You perhaps would be wise to speak with your husband on this issue and ask him not to play into this flirting etc.

Answer 8

if it is innocent then you can let it go.....if not and it really bothers you talk to your husband about it first and see if he felt the same way or if you are redaing to much into it....then if she dose it again take her aside and tell her that it really bothers you when you flirt with your husband and if she continues to do it.....i would get into a confritation with her and fight it out with words or physical......but thats just what i would do. do you both see her everyday? is it a co-worker or just a random lady?

Answer 9

Take this opportunity to show her what a great guy your husband is. Invite her in for a 3-way. you both can share him. He of coarse, being the gentleman that he is will certainly not complain in the least.

Answer 10

if it was a one time thing you can let it go but if it keep going on then talk to your husband because giving theses woman reason to do what they do and if that not the case then you talk to her like a woman and tell here how you feel nad she does not stop then you open a can of wippass on her and let her no you are not playing

Answer 11

Ignore it for a while, if you see him flirt back, tell him quietly 2 stop, if not then, ask the girl 2 stop, if all else fails, get really REALLY mad =) works 4 me