how can i keep my unloving husband in my hands and make himdance to my tunes?

Answer 1

kick him in the NUTS, he won't go far, plus you will have him on his knees.

then tell him what you want from him...

Answer 2

Love cannot be bought. Love cannot be instilled. Love just happens.
Do not worry too much about him at this point. The more you yearn for him and the more your desperation shows, the uglier you become in his eyes.
Give him space and give yourself space. Get a hobby, maybe two. Get some new friends. Spend more time for yourself. Be confident. Exude the air that "i am hot. touch at your own risk!"
But at the same time, be kind to people and loving towards your family. Become strong and self-confident but not snobbish.
Like I said, forget him for now. Concentrate on yourself.
You will see how the whole world looks at you when you do that, including this guy!
Never give someone more importance than they deserve!
Good luck!

Answer 3

You must analyse why he is running away from you. If he is a born polygamist you must not have chosen him in the first place. What is it he is getting elsewhere which you are not able to give him.Do you have any children? They area great bond between couples. You have to ask those questions any remedy the situation. Nextbest thing is to sit down have a chat with your husband. You can try something on those lines.

Answer 4

This is exactly what i have been witnessing all my life with women and them tolerating all the shi* that men does. And you end up with what ? love? No.
I've known so many self sacrificing women who did this to themselves, what is it like a martyr complex or something? You put women back a thousand years you really do. Have some respect for yourself.The guy doesn't love you.The truth.

Answer 5

communication is the first key 2 crack his door.respect him,wash hi cloths, tidy the room regularly,make the children are always neat.dress attractively when u are going out,and wile at home dress sexily .remember he sees younger girls outside and he is liable to be tempted.he is ur husband, do all those old things that made him married u. he still need those kisses after a hard days work,remind him constantly dat u loves him.dont ever nag at him, it makes him 2 detest u, dont ever refuse him sex wen he needs it, remembr not to tell him dat u are tired. dat is ur matrimonial duty.do this today and u will be happy.No man hates a woman he said i do to.dont argue with him, accept wat ever decision he makes, if u want to correct any mistake do it wen u are alone at night and not wen the children are around.men hate to see their wife arguing with them.

Answer 6

A cold man is a cold man. Why would you even want to be with him? A relationship takes two people; one can't do all the work and expect any of the enjoyment. I know; I've been there!

Answer 7

You can't. No one should try to control another human being. If he is unloving the marriage won't last. Try marriage counseling.

Answer 8

Why would you want to keep anyone who is unloving?

You need him to dance to your tunes ..... because ...... what your a puppeteer???

Answer 9

only with love ,trust and ur care..without blaiming and be with him in his hard time as a sword to a warrior at the time of battle

Answer 10

your living in a dream world, no one can make anyone do anything they don't want to do, we only have control over ourselves. money does talk in situations, but who wants a man u gotta buy.

Answer 11

Voodoo doll.