2006-11-23 21:27:35 · 25 answers · asked by nitu k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-11-23 23:51:28 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many love marriages are successful...the two people balance each other well...They share responsibility.
Others, however, are unsuccessful because before marriage, all one has to do is love...after marriage one has to buy (or rent) a home to live in, take care of the children...With that comes responsibility, when they both decide that the other person has to take the responsibility, the marriage don't work. In these kinds of marriages, one is expecting a lot from the other, so they end up breaking up...
2006-11-23 21:33:05 · answer #2 · answered by Mafia 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Because behaviour of a person before marriage is totally dedicated towards each other so as not to break the relationship. This makes our aspirations extremely unreasonable which can't be met because of diversions towards other commitments like job responsibility, children etc. Hence the problem. However in a arranged marriage we normally are not familiar with each other so well and hence the commitments starts after marriage. This commitment normally increases since there is no pre marriage behaviour comparisions.
Apart from this the other reason is the non support from parents also makes things difficult. If you are socially not active and have married aginst family wishes the support from family doesn't comes to save the marriage. They will be happy to see at times to see marriage break as it was against their wishes .
2006-11-23 21:40:51 · answer #3 · answered by seybiomed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriages as a given whole are not successful for many reasons.
Money
Communication
Affairs
No one ever loved someone so much that they weren't willing to try and work through things. I suppose it will depend of your defination of love. In today's society I think people give up and quit or look else where way to easily.
2006-11-23 21:31:30 · answer #4 · answered by dumpllin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any marriage can be successful or a failure. Failure is when partners do not understand each others problems, do not respect each other and each others relations, do not understand the realities of life. The love is many a times based on only one aspect, that is emotion, may be one is obliged to other for some reason. But marriages do not last on obligations, physical beauty or how many times you dine together or tough each other etc etc. MARRIAGE STANDS ON SOUND FOUNDATION OF TRUST, UNDERSTANDING AND LOVE, where obligations have no way.
2014-08-17 03:37:25 · answer #5 · answered by Jyotsana S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HUH....
Wrong question. It should be "Why marriages are not successful ?" and for that there might be 1001 answers.
I am marriad for almost 2 decades. Our bondage still becoming stronger. Even to day we are romancing, touring, holidaying, even having satisfied sex every week. And our's is a love marriage.
My answer is just one, that is- any marraige, be it love or arrange can be unsuccessful only when some out side element gets in to you two, either living or some thing.
Got my point dear ?
2006-11-24 05:27:57 · answer #6 · answered by ga ga 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not true. There are no guarantees with love or even an arranged marriage. I love the older generation. They were more committed to marriage and life. I've met some couples that have been married 40 and 50+ years. Depends on if you are dedicated to your mate.
2006-11-23 22:38:25 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2015-08-18 02:09:59 · answer #8 · answered by Raguel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of u r prejudiced that love marriage doesn't work. mine is an intercaste interstate interreligeous love marriage. why people think that love marriges dont work is because stories failures in love marriage do come in open. there are numerous cases of arranged marriages which fail, but they are swept under carpet.
when you are in only thing that you see in your partner is his /her good qualities . but after marriage once you stay together the other side also become visible.there lies responsibilty,commitments and love for each other. one has to balance. moreover expectations in love marriages are too high compared to arranged marrriges.another thing which plays a pivotal role i that support of parents.in most of love marriages are against the wish of parents.in such cases there is no medium to resolve the problems if at all they croop up. in many arranged marriages it is the mediation of the parents and their pressure is what persuading to live together even if the partners dont want to.
what actually matters is your understanding with your partner,commitment, patient listening, care for each other and bove all a heart to forgive each others mistakes
2006-11-24 16:10:02 · answer #9 · answered by MANU 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not generalise the question because there are always exceptions. however the main reason for love marriage to fail is because the lovers fail to realise the social realities like the culture difference among themselves, the religion difference among themselves, the non acceptance of their marriage by their elders, the financial considerations , the heredity reasons etc etc . Also the main reason for their marriage is love and committment later whereas in arranged marriages committment is first and love comes latter and hence as the time goes on and on the love increaseses in arranged marriages and decreases in the love marriages resulting in its failures.
2006-11-23 21:38:50 · answer #10 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not 100% in some cases . if man has no ego problem and have pateitence. marriage will be success either love marriage
or arrange marriage.
2006-11-23 21:43:49 · answer #11 · answered by ANIL A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋