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i ahve reached a point of no return in my marriage. it will nevr work out this am sure of after 5 years into it.

can someone tell me how you go about ending it? do u just walk out, do u say goodbye? do u write a letter ? how do u do it. there is a 3 year old child involved here.

2006-11-23 20:17:25 · 5 answers · asked by Essie 2 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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hi there well im sorry that you feel like this but the only way to deal with this is to sit down and talk it out as there is a three year old involved ,if you just walk out it will cause more hurt and the child could start to think that it is all there fault there will be a lot of tears as this is never easy but if you and youre wife can talk things through maybe things will be easier for you all and you never know by talking you might be able to save something out of this marriage like acsess to the child or maybe even youre marriage things always look really bad when there has been no talking i really hope you both find happiness and can get things sorted out that will suit you both good luck and take care xx

2006-11-23 21:25:40 · answer #1 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 0 0

wow, sounds like you really have a full plate to deal with. if your husband is not prone to violence, i would write down your feelings on paper, practice what you're going to say, and then have a face-to-face with him and tell him why you are leaving. hopefully you can end it amicably for your child's sake, as you will have to deal with dad for many years to come still. i wish you the very best of luck with this.
btw, my mom's name is essie too ;o]

2006-11-23 20:44:51 · answer #2 · answered by pirate00girl 6 · 0 0

You should definitely sit and talk to each other before you leave. 5 years are not short time to leave together

2006-11-23 23:04:24 · answer #3 · answered by R P 1 · 0 0

you set down and talk about it and end that way because the child when there a child envolved there know end anythng belive me be there done that

2006-11-23 20:30:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Talk to him,when its at the end both people usually no...

2006-11-23 22:10:40 · answer #5 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0 0

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