2006-11-27 10:42:49 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
oil massage her as s
2006-11-27 10:43:56 · answer #1 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It starts with emotional connections first. Then it leads up to physical connections.
First stimulate her mind. Make her feel happy, relaxed, HAPPY, pampered, make her feel special, HAPPY, secure, appreciated... Did I say make her feel happy?
Once you help her get through a day, be there to listen to her, be a good shoulder for her to lean on for support, don't try solving all her problems and most of all spend some time with her just to be close. Give her hugs, warm kisses and don't try getting anything in return (this is awful, but it works) and over time she'll realize how special you are to her and she'll completely be mentally aroused... Which will turn into her aching for physical pleasure too.
Do chores around the house without being asked. Help make her day easier and the night will open up some free time and a lot of eager stress relieving needs will come right out of the woodwork!
2006-11-27 19:26:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try some intimate games, my wife and I have one, I cant remember the name but basically you take a card and it will tell you things like "spray whip cream on your partners stomach and lick it off" or "look your lover in the eye and tell them why you love them" It is fun and at the same time helps you grow closer together. Marriage can get dull and you have to be willing to branch out a little to spice it up some.
2006-11-27 18:46:45 · answer #3 · answered by Got2seeit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Read the sex part in a romance novel. Nora Roberts is great for them. Most women want to feel, cherished, loved, and wanted. Learn how to seduce her. Most women just dont POP into the mood like a guy. It takes coaxing. Write her a letter, and tell her what you want to do to her when you get home from work. Or phone sex is always cool too.When my husband comes up behind me close and kisses the back of my neck, it always helps.
2006-11-27 20:18:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah.... I agree with the massage response. Get some nicely scented oil and when she gets out of the shower (make sure she's already in a good mood) ofter to massage her entire body....
Make sure you say that you're not expecting anything in return and tell her to lie down on the bed - stomach side down.
Get a warm towel and lay it on top of her body and start off massaging her feet and then work your way up.
You might also want to make sure you do all your chores first... and make sure she isn't hungry or otherwise stressed out.
Some nice calming music is also good... with, of course, some warm, dim lights.
Oh yeah, be sure to pay attention to her body language... and while you're massaging her don't talk...just listen...
Good luck.
2006-11-27 18:47:40 · answer #5 · answered by ♪ ♥ ♪ ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simply, help her out around the house, help with the kids, cook dinner, run her a nice bath with some lit candles, let her enjoy a night off without a care in the world.
thats a big turn on
2006-11-27 18:46:14 · answer #6 · answered by sweet_treats_4_u33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat her like a woman...You have to compliment her and try the things you did when you were dating...That really turns a woman on... Take her out wine and dine her...She will probably think you are cheating on her or something and are feeling guilty..but if not you will see a change if she loves you in the first place...If not sorry.......
2006-11-27 18:46:35 · answer #7 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If its your wife then you should have an idea on what turns her on. If not and things have been slow, you need to rewind and treat her to a night all about her, her favorite movie, food, bar, position...or chicks dig porn.
2006-11-27 18:47:19 · answer #8 · answered by mickeys12 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wives are different than girlfriends or "dates". Recognize that, and realize that she needs the total package from you. If you have kids, take them off her hands, and say, " Have today to do whatever you like, darling...and then tonight, you're mine to romance." Guaranteed success. If you don't have kids, give her a massage---not a sexual one---and baby her a bit. It'll pay off.
2006-11-27 18:48:20 · answer #9 · answered by hot_italian_empress 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do something special for her. Do something that she loved and enjoyed while you were dating her. Remember just because you married her You Must Keep the Flame Burning so it won't Burn Out. Make dinner for and send her 2 dozen of roses.
2006-11-27 18:52:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
E-mail me with the specific details, I'll give you specific things to try that always worked for me, in more detail privately than the room here will allow.
2006-11-27 18:44:53 · answer #11 · answered by David W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋