i just read a disturbing post..... some of you probably answered on it..... anyway! i really don't think my husband looks at porn, yet a lot of people say its normal. do all men watch porn (internet, magazines, videos, etc...)
2006-11-27 10:48:15 · 11 answers · asked by don't be rude. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i dont' mean just seeing pictures here and there, cuz i knwo it is all over the place... his friends will show him stuff, there are naked picks on the walls at the bike shop etc.... but i am talking more about him actually seeking it out.
2006-11-27 10:54:16 · update #1
I have watched porn , but i was 16-18 I have looked at some nude mags. but to say that i go out of my way to get them or watch them no. ill look then that's it , I prefer the real thing
2006-11-27 10:56:20 · answer #1 · answered by bob 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In my experience, it's normal to be looking at porn (at least occasionally) not only for men, but also for women (although to a lesser degree). Most guys I've known intimately admitted to looking at porn; the only person I know who doesn't do porn is someone who's not at all interested in sex in general (yes, there are guys like this). Porn doesn't have to be an obsession - but I'm willing to bet that a healthy, sexually interested male WILL seek out porn at one time or another, be it once a week, once a month, or once a year.
2006-11-27 11:18:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, every friend I've ever had has admitted to looking at porn. Every Guy does it! if 99% of men look at porn on the Internet, then the other 1% don't have computers and wish they could look at porn on the Internet. There are times I look at porn on the Internet, right after having sex, I'm not even interested in it, but I look cause I can.
2006-11-27 10:52:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
my man watches porn half the time he watches other women to i have no issue AT ALL with it. He is faithful he just has eyes men are very visual. I LOOK at other men i think it would be more UNNATURAL to not notice other people. in fact i think it's healthy. he dose not only watch porn he know limits i would never belive a man or women that said they don't find people attractive now because they got married
2006-11-27 10:52:52 · answer #4 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All men do not look at porn. My husband and I have been married 34 years, have a very "healthy" relationship and he's never been into "porn".
I don't think it's "normal", I think that's just an excuse men use to justify their need to seek it out. I think when two people have a loving relationship based on mutual respect, there's no need for "porn".
Don't worry about your husband, he's obviously very happy with you!
2006-11-27 11:15:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
It might be normal in some circles but drugs,gangs,murder,rape,robbery are normal in some circles also.But not for me and my friends.All my life if I had a friend that was into drugs ,porn etc.. I would find a new friend."You will become like the people you hang around" Sex is not the center of my life.My wife and children are.The "act" of marriage and the thought of it is between my wife and I .Yes I see it all over the place we cant help it in today's messed up world.To look once your human to look twice you will have a troubled life.
2006-11-27 11:24:12 · answer #6 · answered by archer 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think all men are into looking at porn and internet, magazines, disturbing literature's. all men are different and some find this sort of stuff uninteresting.
2006-11-27 11:02:52 · answer #7 · answered by Ellen J 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think most of them do. You wouldn't believe how many men (married) come to the strip club and attempt to offer cash for a little more than a lap dance. Married men are the worst.
2006-11-27 10:58:09 · answer #8 · answered by 2sexy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes!!!!!! it is a way to live out a fantasy without hurting anyone
2006-11-27 10:50:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not all men do, but there are women who enjoy it also!!!
2006-11-27 11:04:38 · answer #10 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋