Marriage & Divorce - 27 November 2006

For example; if the father of 2 sons that both cheated on their wives; cheated on their mother; is this just a coincidence or could genetics be involved? Of course people have free will but it is interesting that a father and both sons all cheated on their wives.

2006-11-27 12:54:55 · 34 answers · asked by Tgirl 3

I have always been cranky and mean my mom and dad. I know it is wrong, but sometimes I just don't know how else to be to them. I have always been hostile to them since I was a child. I have suffered from depression for over 15 years now. The thing is that I am so nice and kind to everyone else except my parents. My fiance is scared now because he sees how I am with my parents and is scared that is the way I really am. He is scared because he thinks I might end up treating him like that down the road. I have never been cranky or mean to my fiance ever and he admits that I have never been that way. I think he is worried about my behavior to my parents. It scared me because I dont' want to lose him. I try to make it a point to be nice to my mom and dad, but it never works. I don't know why it is hard for me. Would you be scared and want to back out of the wedding if you were my fiance?

2006-11-27 12:54:53 · 7 answers · asked by lc 1

please help me

2006-11-27 12:49:48 · 5 answers · asked by shabutta 1

YEARS ago,my husband snuck up on my when he got home from work,he scared the crap out of me and I thought it was pretty funny;he did it a few more times and it was stilll funny; also I turned the tables on him and scared him when I got home from work and also when just at home,"chillin".Fast forward to 5 years later,and I don't think it is funny anymore at all;he does it like, ALL the time;when he comes home from work,he sneaks up on me when I am taking a bath;cooking or cleaning;all the time, sometimes 2 or 3 times a day;it isn't funny anymore and I have gotten to the point where I am paranoid to even function,because I always feel like someone is watching me.I am never doing anything wrong,but every once in a while I will look up-and there he is hiding behind the corner.I have a sense of humour,but I feel like this has gone to far.I yell at him and tell him how pissed I am and tell him to stop doing it but he won't.Am I being a *****, or is he just being immature?

2006-11-27 12:44:32 · 26 answers · asked by Courtney 3

2006-11-27 12:43:57 · 15 answers · asked by stardust7070 1

My husband died four years ago this christmas. I have a daughter under ten. Should you wait until she out of school?

2006-11-27 12:33:31 · 24 answers · asked by Halo Mom 7

going thru a tough time heart wise........hubby cheated and now lives with his girlfriend he is 42 she is 21....i had no idea that my marriage was a sham as he tells it to others .....he says he had been unhappy for 8 yrs which i can tell you was a complete shock to me....i thought us happy .....anyway we were together 20 plus yrs with 4 children..he shows no guilt nor remorse for the pain he has caused me and now acts like i dont exsist and when he does speak to me he is usually nasty...doesnt he know he hurt me enough already.why continue to hurt me.......help me understand.....( i told him to leave after the affair was found out because he didnt want to save our marriage his actions told me that)

2006-11-27 12:26:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 18 years old and my boyfriend wants me to have another kid, cause i already have one and she is 2 years old... I Really don't want to but he says he will leave me if i don't want do i do?

2006-11-27 12:13:31 · 25 answers · asked by enjoying_lyfe 2

i just want some insight from others about this situation because i feel terrible that i am taking her from a situation that shes truly loves.she says she wants to do it because she wants to be wherever i am going to be.but i still cant help from feelin guilty because i know how much she loves her family and friends and she does not know anyone where she is moving to besides myself.should i consider moving where she may be happier? i have a good thing going on where i am at but i would do anything to make her happy. and i thank u all for ur replys.

2006-11-27 11:56:52 · 11 answers · asked by Ashman78 1

I was washing the dishes, when a question came to my mind. I am curious to know how many women out there cook and clean up for their men? I was raised to do this from my mother, but at times I get lazy and don't do as much as she would want me to. Anyway, are there ladies who do this?

2006-11-27 11:53:56 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am married to a woman that loves me , and I love her , but I do not enjoy her company , we have two sons 25 and 26 ,we have been together 27 years

2006-11-27 11:51:08 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

Wife cheated and told me that about her and the guy she was with.

2006-11-27 11:45:55 · 38 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6

I've been married for 5 years my wife is beggining to get cold. It is also because of me. what can i do or what should i do to rekindle the flames again.

2006-11-27 11:43:20 · 7 answers · asked by mark R. 1

I think that if you took the decision to marry you should not divorce your spouse till the death separates. What do you think?

2006-11-27 11:42:54 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Men aren't the only dogs, they just get caught more than we do.

2006-11-27 11:40:41 · 17 answers · asked by Honey 1

My husband and I recently divorced, I want to know if I can receive benefits from his Social Securtiy?

2006-11-27 11:35:18 · 5 answers · asked by addie 1

any tips on how to stay calm

2006-11-27 11:30:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

The women says if you want more sex you need to help out more.
PHASE 1:
So the guy cleans up around the house and then gets some. The next week he takes her out to dinner and then gets some. The next week he gets her flowers and then he get some.

Phase 2
He cleans up and she says "Not tonight".
Next he cleans up and takes her to dinner.

This all leads to guys running around do everything women want and women saying "Not tonight".

So how many of you feel that women are trying to get everything they can out of you before putting out? And what ideas do you have to turn the tables?

2006-11-27 11:28:52 · 12 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6

I am 21 and almost out of college. A lot of my friends have gotten married. It is not that I feel "left out" I just feel like I can't hang around people without them having marriage on the brain. Is it just me or am I the only one who feels to young to make such a commitment right now? Marriage is not a bad thing but it has been as if a lot of my friends have gotten married with the mindset of it is going to be a fairy tale and everything is going to be perfect. My mother has been pushing me to finish my education and be on my own and know who I am before I make such a commitment. I know people say that women marry older but within the past couple of years there has been an influx of marriages. I am happy for them. I just feel like there is pressure on me because I am like the only one not married. Am I being selfish?

2006-11-27 11:25:48 · 33 answers · asked by amber 3

The problem is he'll have to share the hotel expenses, along with gas to get there with another female I absolutely despise because we really can't afford this trip. I already have a problem with the amount of time he spends on the phone with this person. He really does need to go to the conference. We are low on cash, by him going he can pull several jobs out of the conference. My problem I have with him going is having to share the room with her. Am I being selfish? Regardless of how I feel about their business relationship. What about the potential jobs that can come from him attending the conference. I don't work, stay at home mom. How should I deal with this?

2006-11-27 11:25:47 · 16 answers · asked by 2bRnot 1

10 years ago my wife started wanting sex less often than I did ... five years ago she starting the off-putting excuses and canned avoidance comments ... two years ago she closed the gates completely ... now if I broach the subject she gets hostile, and if I reach out to touch her I feel her cringe. She doesn't believe in divorce, so now what happens?

2006-11-27 11:22:38 · 21 answers · asked by David W 6

They really hate my girlfriend for various reason but none are really that serious. My girlfriend isnt really comfortable around them and they have problems when she dosent come around even thought they dont like her. They talk about her behing her back all the time, My girlfriend here's stuff they say about her and thats why she dosent like going around them. Problem is were planning on getting married within the next 6 month to a year and this problem seems un fixable. any advice

2006-11-27 11:22:35 · 20 answers · asked by Kevin C 2

but now he is saying that he don't want to be with me cause he is having to much fun being single now. what do you think that i should do just let him go or???

2006-11-27 11:22:30 · 15 answers · asked by cassandra w 1

What about your wife's body is there that you don't like? My husband dose not like the size of my breast "i don't either" they are a DDD to E cup. We both agree a C is perfect. Just wondering what other men don't like about their wifes bodies.

2006-11-27 11:20:59 · 10 answers · asked by ally'smom 5

They really hate my girlfriend for various reason but none are really that serious. My girlfriend isnt really comfortable around them and they have problems when she dosent come around even thought they dont like her. They talk about her behing her back all the time, My girlfriend here's stuff they say about her and thats why she dosent like going around them. Problem is were planning on getting married within the next 6 month to a year and this problem seems un fixable. any advice

2006-11-27 11:20:19 · 14 answers · asked by Kevin C 2

Providing women could have kids without men of course. I think we would still be living in caves. Your opinion?

2006-11-27 11:17:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you don't think your husband looks at porn, you simply haven't caught him. If you don't want him looking then give him sex twice a day, because that's what we're wired for. If you can't/don't do that then just be glad he loves you enough not to cheat.

2006-11-27 11:16:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

How many married women out there have a child that they know is not their husband's child (married at the time of conception)? I know what the statistics say but I want to kind of check this site out for honesty. The national average is 1 in every 9 children.

2006-11-27 11:15:10 · 8 answers · asked by open_phunguy 3

My wife likes to wear my t shirts to bed occasionally and it makes me feel like I'm in bed with another man. Not just another man but myself, and I don't find myself attractive nor do I turn myself on. We have been married for 6 years and have four children but I can't spend my life with a cross dressing woman. What should I do?

2006-11-27 11:14:47 · 19 answers · asked by E_Soup 5

2006-11-27 11:08:56 · 7 answers · asked by Pat 1