I've been married for 5 years my wife is beggining to get cold. It is also because of me. what can i do or what should i do to rekindle the flames again.
2006-11-27 11:43:20 · 7 answers · asked by mark R. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Try being more romantic. try getting back to the ol days the way you were when you were dating. Why ddon't you have a date night once a week or once a month. forget the mundane things of the week. and actually take her out on a date. whether it be to a movie dinner dancing or to a nice hotel. Plan things to do together go for a spa day or a mini trip just the two of you.
Bring in some spice in your bedroom . Be tender and loving.
Things can get boring or get stuck in a rutt this will be good for both of you to do this.
Good luck.
2006-11-27 12:13:48 · answer #1 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say it is because of you. Why is that?? Have you taken her out for a nice dinner and maybe a motel room?? Could she be seeing someone else?? have you sat down and talked to her at length about what is going on in your relationship. Marriage is hard and you have to continually work at it the whole time. Love will overcome.
2006-11-27 19:51:08 · answer #2 · answered by Lori C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is she turning cold.....you say its because of you. Treat her to something special. Does she feel like 'just a wife' ? Do something you did together in the beginning of the relationship. Find what it is that sent you on the downhill slope.....can you make amends?
2006-11-27 20:36:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start dating her again. Surprise her with flowers, gifts. I believe if a man continues to treat his wife well, she will NOT turn cold.
2006-11-27 19:49:26 · answer #4 · answered by PikC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk to her about what's going on. Women are stimulated more mentally and emotionally. Try to take yourself back to when you first met. Pray for your marriage too. When she is sleeping pray over her and ask for healing with whatever has caused this "temporary" problem.
2006-11-27 19:51:40 · answer #5 · answered by slimdiva1977 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How are you treating her? Are you taking time to talk or just speaking when you need something. Try being sensitive and loving this may help.
2006-11-27 20:32:06 · answer #6 · answered by lizzybit64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start back over spice up your sex life alittle more
2006-11-27 19:51:58 · answer #7 · answered by MsJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋