but now he is saying that he don't want to be with me cause he is having to much fun being single now. what do you think that i should do just let him go or???
2006-11-27 11:22:30 · 15 answers · asked by cassandra w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get moving-away from that jerk-nobody needs that crap! GoodLuck
2006-11-27 11:26:32 · answer #1 · answered by hiding1959 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
unfortunatly u must allow him to make his own decisions, sometimes in life people hurt us, and it's unfair, but if we try to make that person stay with us, it will only end with them resenting us. he wants to be free, and there is nothing u can do to change his mind right now. so best to just move on and get some support system that can help u through this, as it is hard to have the person we loved and trusted just walk out on us. we have no control over that other person, or their choices in life. the more we try to control the situation the worse it is for us and the more damaging to our self worth. right now he is resisting any reconciliation with u, don't feel it is your falt. u have told him how u feel i assume, and now it's time to wait on him to call u. any more confrontation with him now would further damage your self worth. leave it alone awhile and wait and see.
2006-11-27 11:39:50 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LET HIM GO!!! You have a new chance to find mister right. Its not worth the hurt and work chances are it would end shortly any way. I feel for you having to go through the pain but in the end your better off without him. Go get your self a GOOD man who deserves you and not some worthless piece of ****. Your probably better off without him anyway.
2006-11-27 11:29:19 · answer #3 · answered by lovelittlelulu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why fight to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you? Did he use moving away as a tactic to get rid of you? Move on with your life after you get over the hurt of being dumped!
2006-11-27 12:08:32 · answer #4 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, let him be all he can be and sue him for divorce and everything youre legally entitled to. Then let him see how much he really loves being single. Good luck
2006-11-27 11:26:47 · answer #5 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cassandra. If he's enjoying the single life he's certainly not being faithful. Move on. You deserve better.
2006-11-27 11:27:29 · answer #6 · answered by Diablo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not cheating then he has no real excuse.
Not everyone man and women are ready for the commitment and sacrifices that come with being married.
I say dump him, he is stringing you along.
2006-11-27 11:26:43 · answer #7 · answered by P&B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him.
Tell him you've been having a lot of fun too. Don't elaborate.
Sorry. What an immature jerk.
2006-11-27 12:11:18 · answer #8 · answered by mrpeabody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah girl ! don*t beg him ! go have your fun ! he*ll miss you one day & want to come back & you can tell him to go back & play with his friends ! life goes on ! plenty of fish in the sea ! you*ll snag a good one day ! be patient !
2006-11-27 11:30:47 · answer #9 · answered by Barbie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you want to live with a man that has cheated on you and told you about it? I don't think i would wanna do that and you should not either
2006-11-27 11:28:04 · answer #10 · answered by roy40372 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋