My wife likes to wear my t shirts to bed occasionally and it makes me feel like I'm in bed with another man. Not just another man but myself, and I don't find myself attractive nor do I turn myself on. We have been married for 6 years and have four children but I can't spend my life with a cross dressing woman. What should I do?
2006-11-27 11:14:47 · 19 answers · asked by E_Soup 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why do I think this is tongue in cheek? Okay, I'll answer seriously. Is it just the t shirts in bed? Or does she wear a false moustache, suspenders and a strap on? If it's just the t shirts you should encourage her to wear something sexier. You can always gently ask her to do so and you could also buy her some sexy camisoles.
2006-11-27 11:19:12 · answer #1 · answered by braennvin2 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When Rudy Giuliani found out that he was a cousin of his wife they divorced or enolled the marriage, I'm not sure. Rudy's cross dressing, that was a joke on SNL, if you don't understand jokes, well I can't help you. Newt Gingrich divorced his wife when she was bedridden so that her children would receive her inheritance in the event of her death. What an evil man! McCain, I don't know anything about his marriage. Thompson has a younger wife. All people that are married should be the same age? All married men should be younger than their wives? If an older man marries a younger woman she should not be pretty? What are you trying to say? Mitt Romney, yes he's only been married once, now that's a defect. According to you, Mormons have many wives, but not according to their church. What morals do Democrats hold near and dear? Religion (abolish all religious symbols in the public square), Family (a marriage can be anything that we want it to be, two moms, two dads, a man and a boy, whatever), Country (we must oppose the facist regime that would intercept terrorist phone calls made from our soil and stop the killing of innocent "freedom fighters" in Iraq who target civilians along with our military) ?
2016-03-28 22:11:02 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not see wearing a t-shirt to bed is cross dressing. I would get counseling if that bothers you, because the counselor will probably tell you that there is nothing wrong wearing a t-shirt to bed.
Good luck
2006-11-27 11:48:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a woman I find tshirts very comfy to wear to bed. Your wife isn't cross dressing because she wears your shirts to bed. Unless she has the intention of dressing as a man by wearing them. I think you should love your wife reguardless of what she wears. Heck, I know plenty of men that would enjoy seeing their wives in their tshirts.
2006-11-27 11:35:02 · answer #4 · answered by Rei 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't consider that cross dressing I wear my husband's shirts all the time to bed. I don't feel like I am man while wearing them. Get some counseling to boost your self-esteem because that low confidence and self doubt can rub off on your children, also, if you don't find yourself attractive, then no one else will. Please start believing in yourself.
2006-11-27 11:20:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
wearing your tee shirt to bed is definatly not cross dressing, and I think it's a little weird that it make you feel like your in bed with yourself, but I would just buy her something else, but don't expect her to wear anything uncomfortable, I mean when sleeping she wants to be comfortable, that's why she's wearing your tees not because shes a cross dresser...
2006-11-27 11:28:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
since when is wearing a man's t-shirt to bed cross dressing? Glad my husband isn't such jerk. He says to my I like those slippery little numbers and he knows I'm not crazy about them but I have a couple that I wear for him. ;)
you should tell her nicely that you would like to see her in something slinky in bed. You'd be surprised.
2006-11-27 11:20:45 · answer #7 · answered by Pandora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like the other guy said that is not crossdressing you guys have been married long enough for her to do things like that. That's what married people do! If it bothers you so much then go out and buy some t-shirts for her.
2006-11-27 11:20:21 · answer #8 · answered by Omega 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... first of all do u love? If you love her you should not care that she wears you t-shirts. But if this is really serious, easy as cake tell her to stop wearing your t-shirts. Maybe you should buy her some feminine long tee that she can sleep in.
2006-11-27 11:19:07 · answer #9 · answered by Ash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wearing your T-shirts doesn't make her a cross-dresser (unless she's in your briefs too, LOL). Why not buy her some sexy Britney-the-trailer-tramp T-shirts to wear?
2006-11-27 11:17:43 · answer #10 · answered by David W 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋