I was washing the dishes, when a question came to my mind. I am curious to know how many women out there cook and clean up for their men? I was raised to do this from my mother, but at times I get lazy and don't do as much as she would want me to. Anyway, are there ladies who do this?
2006-11-27 11:53:56 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, I do. I cook, clean, and take care of my son. I am from the south, so alot of women out there are like that. I have been told that I am old fashioned. I like to do it for my man, makes me feel good to make him happy. He does need to help out every now and then though. There is nothing wrong with the way you treat your man, and you do deserve a break every now and then.
2006-11-27 11:59:09 · answer #1 · answered by sea shell 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i do more then he dose around the house in general however he is a better cleaner. He has no issue with doing dishes or running a vacuum. He is a real neat freak so if he thinks it needs cleaned he will do it. I never have to ask. He cleans better then me he looks under the kids beds he pulls out the chairs and couches. I like stuff neat too it bugs him insanely for things to not be nice. My ex husband was a lazy assss he would not do anything even take out the trash i use to get so mad i felt like a maid I'm glad i know now all men are not that lazy. my man was raised by a single women so early on she made him help clean house.
2006-11-27 12:04:33 · answer #2 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do the cooking and he helps me clean the kitchen I do most of the cleaning but he always does too I guess its 50/50 because he does things I can't like fix things around the house. And when I get sick he does alot and he is very caring to me plus he does the yard work removing the snow fixing the car somethings I never do. I can say his a very clean guy. I hate to admit it but I think he does more than around the house.
2006-11-27 12:06:38 · answer #3 · answered by nena24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No . I am one of the lucky few who's married to a clean guy . When I am cooking he helps out by doing the laundry or vacuuming the carpet . and after meals he wash the dishes
2006-11-27 11:55:32 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A woman should not do all of the cooking, cleaning and child responsibilities. Marriage is a shared responsibility. I have always cooked, cleaned, laundered and changed diapers for my family and was proud to do it. I was raised in a family of 6 boys and no sisters, my mom made sure that she was not sending us boys out in the world to be a burden for some woman to take care of, and I'm glad she did. You both have to do your share.
2006-11-27 12:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by harold p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that we as women should do a certain amount of domestic work as far as the home front goes, but I do have a limit as to how much I will clean up after my man. That has always been a big argument in my relationship because the man has been careless in picking up after himself. I can't do it any more, I simply refuse to. There is no maid service where I live, and if you want someone to pick up after you, then go back home to mama!
2006-11-27 12:01:04 · answer #6 · answered by Special K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is supposed to be a partnership. Would you clean after your coworker or let your kids off the hook with chores. I washed my mother do much more than her share of the household work, and it was because she let my dad get lazy. Don't do it - split the work evenly, but help each other out when one of you is short on time. It all goes back to respect - you shouldn't be cleaning up after him constantly.
2006-11-27 11:57:23 · answer #7 · answered by walkingonsunshine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I cook and clean, but I do not tolerate disgusting messes. I will wash the dishes only if my husband scrapes leftover food off his dish and into the trash and properly rinses his plates and cups, then stacks them neatly. I will do cleaning so long as he is not throwing his crap around. The key is respect! I wont cook or clean for anyone who doesnt show me respect.
2006-11-27 11:57:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When l first met my husband he used to leave his towel on the floor, dirty clothes and anything else. In other words he never picked up a thing !! His mum's fault though she did everything for him also his brother and sister, so needless to say he needed to be retrained ( so to speak ). He was a very fast learner though, lucky for me l guess. He always helps me with everything now and he is also a great cook. So l really can't complain, we like to share all responsibilities and l feel that's how relationships should be.
2006-11-27 12:37:10 · answer #9 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both my boyfriend & I work full time jobs (we don't have any kids together or living in the house) I do for him as much as I can. I'm prettly old fashion about serving him a meal first / getting him a beer / doing his laundry / back rubs / blow jobs stuff like that, but when I feel like he doesn't appreciate me or stops saying "Thank You" then I stop for awhile just to remind him how good he has it. Pamper him when you can / when you remember / and when you have the energy to.........(if he deserves it)
2006-11-27 12:16:09 · answer #10 · answered by Reckless 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋