Marriage & Divorce - 27 November 2006

i have been married for 15 yrs. and have 6 yr old daughter. he has cheated me twice. his 2 affair was physical for which he blamed me thet i was not satisfying him.but the truth is he himself kept distance and used to sleep in other room afteer my delivery. he used to make excuse since baby was small he might hurt her while sleeping. i have some how forgive him for this. but the main problem is his 1 affair which he had with his ex which he continued upto 6 yr of our marriage. i am still not able to forget that episode even after so many yrs.i have slipped into depression and i cry whole day recalling incidents that happen 10-15 yrs ago. he call me mad . can some one help me? please

2006-11-27 17:55:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-27 17:46:31 · 10 answers · asked by Ivory_Flame 4

I was in a relationship about 2 and a hlf years ago with someone who was 6 months out of a very unhealthy relationship. She burned his things, punched him while he was driving, and tried to hit him with a claw hammer. He haad her arrested and got a restraing order against her. They have a 5 year old son together. About a year after we broke up, I realized how much he meant to me and tried to contact him, but found out he was back together with her. I had sent him a christmas card, that he had kept, and she found it and tried calling me. I told him I wanted to see him and he told me to come to his work, he didn't tell me he took her back though. He told my friend that he still cared about me, that he always did, and in a perfect world, we would be together. He said that he wasn't in love with her, but that it was complicated and he didn't want to confuse his son. I really worry about his well being. Does anyone have experience with that kind of relationship? I am scared for him.

2006-11-27 17:30:38 · 7 answers · asked by ecrc 2

I am going to be 40 in 3 days and everyone says I don't look it. I do take good care of my body and self. My boyfriend is very happy with me and doesn't mind at all that he's 23 and that I will be 40. We are very much in love unlike other guys I've dated. Someone please help me. Is there something wrong with me or have i really found my soul mate? I've known him all His life and he has to little boys and I have one little boy. We want to spend the rest of our lives together but there's one big problem, I'm married and just don't have any lust or love for HIM anymore. I feel rotten about it, but I know I have truley found my soul mate.

2006-11-27 17:29:14 · 25 answers · asked by sexy bitch 1

1st off I pay my child support by the week and I have never been late. Its the 1st check I write. I recently bought some land and a new home closer to my kids. I get them every other weekend and I hate it. I want more time with them like 1 week with me and 1 week with their mom. When she found out all this she got mad and started giving me a hard time. I got served with papers last week, she is claiming that now she is working and wants an increase in child support. She also claims I am manipulating the kids to stay with me more so my child support can be lowered ( this is not true). As well as a few more outragous accusations that were pretty hurtful to me. I am a good father and want whats best for my 2 kids ( girl 8 and boy 14). I am making about 15000 more a year than when we were divorced 3 yrs ago. I got a lawyer and filed for 50/50 time with kids and decrease in support if I get them more, and a contempt charge on her for not informing me of news with the kids.What do you think?

2006-11-27 17:24:01 · 9 answers · asked by kboy221 2

2006-11-27 17:19:03 · 16 answers · asked by Juan 1

I have two baby girls, and I am almost 19. I am married to a man I have been with for 4 years. We have been married almost 2 now. I just finished my 1st semester of nursing school, and it has been really hard. My husband doesnt help at all. Granted he works, but I go to school FULL TIME, and I am a full time mother. He comes home from work and then goes out, comes home and does whatever he wants. I end up being up til like 3:30am every night studying, and cleaning, and taking care of the babies...because he doesnt want to help out at all. He is also very verbally abusive, no he has never hit me, but he as soon as I ask him to do ONE thing he just flips out. He never use to be like this. I am just very frustrated, and whoever attends nursing school would know how very hard it is. Plus having 2 tiny babys on top of that. I have tried talking to him about this,but he doesnt listen. I have done EVERYTHING to try and work things out, & I feel like the only thing I havent done is leave him.

2006-11-27 17:11:21 · 32 answers · asked by kimmylou1988 2

If my 16 year old daughter chooses to not see me, must I continue to pay child support until she is 18 years old?

2006-11-27 17:07:23 · 29 answers · asked by tnzbobz 1

too, we just met at the internets, and we are really half world apart having different nationalities...help me please, shall i continue with him...or just forget about him? I have no idea if he has a plan to make formal divorce from his ex...my feelings of meeting him one day depends on this.

2006-11-27 17:03:07 · 26 answers · asked by Nami 2

I care for my husband but I have no love for him. He degrades & belittles me in front of anyone including strangers. He also does it in front of our kids!! So now its not just him its my 3&5 yearolds too.Is it really worth this much pain & heartache???

2006-11-27 17:02:05 · 17 answers · asked by jessieslast2 1

It its unholy to have have anal sex with your wife? no pun intended

2006-11-27 17:01:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mum wants to ask muta'ah from my dad,now tat he has money but they've been divorce for more then ten years. y she didnt ask for it before,its bcause my dad didnt have money.she was given 3 talaq,as my dad wanted to marry my mum's best friend.both r married now.so is it possible ?

2006-11-27 17:01:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Breaking up is tough, usually unexspected, and often unwanted, how did you cope with the loss? Did you morn for days, maybe years or were you healed by positive influences? What advice would you give someone going through a break up?

2006-11-27 17:01:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a girl with traditional back ground and I am engaged now. My would be invited me to meet once and i went there. we had a nice time ofcurce. but later he is telling that i was not up tho his expectations but he assures he love me still. he dont tell what was he expecting. infact i kept away from much romatic activities except talking. was he expecting that ? when i asked about that he said u shud know it well. and shuld not be like this. do i need to do any thing more..litle confused

2006-11-27 16:59:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Am I just stupid?

I don't want to 'make him' divorce her. I would rather he do it because he doesn't want to be married to her anymore.

I've talked to him about it and he says that he should get working on it but then... nothing happens.

Again...am I just stupid?

2006-11-27 16:48:03 · 28 answers · asked by jjoct18 2

2006-11-27 16:43:11 · 9 answers · asked by mahmadi500 1

2006-11-27 16:41:56 · 19 answers · asked by Ivory_Flame 4

I'm 21 years old and my boyfriend is 26years old. We have been living together for 4 years. We both want two kids, we have even picked two names. He said he wants to marry me so when will be be? I really want to have kids when i am about 23 years old but i want to be marryed first. So why won't he ask me?

2006-11-27 16:38:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance and I just broke up. He told me that he just couldnt do it right now (he is in tech school for the miltary in texas and home is in SC and cant be home till march) He told me he had to much stress. He told me that he did see us working it out but it was going to take time. I have a phone plan and he is on it and in the mist of our fighting I told him I was going to cut it off but told him later I would never do that he told me he was getting his own phone but he would still pay for mine and pay for the disconection fee. Why is he doing that? He also said that he felt like he was depending to much on me. he is also having finance trouble so he cant afford it really? But he is still going to pay for mine the bill will still cost as much is just the deposit and the disconnection fee. Why is he doing this?

2006-11-27 16:32:48 · 11 answers · asked by SunShineBabe 3

I am currently in my 3rd semester of college, maintaining a 3.4 GPA while taking a full class load. I am also working full time. I also have 2 kids, ages 6 and 8. I have primary custody 70/30 and it all seems to be going alright, but everyone keeps telling me I need to lay off school and go part time. Problem is, I would like to graduate before my kids are teenagers. My degree will allow me to finally get a job that will allow me some financial freedom so that I don't have to struggle so hard to stay afloat right now. I am not on welfare. I do get child support. My kids are very happy. I am stressed out, but would be more so if I weren't doing anything to get myself out of my current status (Low skill, low paying job, tiny apartment, stuck). It took me 10 years to finally get here because my ex wouldn't let me go to college, so why would anyone think that I need to stop now? Am I insane? I am happy for myself, what is wrong with going back to school?

2006-11-27 16:23:24 · 21 answers · asked by asleep 2

I have been divorced for a long time and I have a lot of contact with her, I would like to get back into a relationship with her but her own kids dislike her very much and she's get back into dating. I don't know If should go for it or just let it go?

2006-11-27 16:20:25 · 9 answers · asked by nsdq95 1

they never work for themselves they just always asked help whenever they need one.

2006-11-27 16:19:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay I have been Married 2 Years Dec 2nd And my wife wants to have a child, but not with me she has told me she wants a Interracial Baby, We are both White and she wants a African American-White Mixed Baby. She also has addmitted that she has been having sex with Black Male Friends(not with STD's) Unprotectedly. She maked me wear a condom because she doesnt want a White baby and hopes 1 day maybe there will be 1 race and having a non racist world im guessing. So i exchanged so no so good words to her making her really upset with me and i feel bad 1 because i upset her and 2 because im Mad myself She says she loves only me and only has sex with Afrian's until she gets preagnet? what should i do im so Sad and Depressed right now, How can i Raise another mans baby an i dont know the father?

2006-11-27 16:13:28 · 19 answers · asked by Dog209 1

Myself, I got down on 1 knee, and had the ring on the chain of a necklace that I gave her, that was inside a rose shaped case.

2006-11-27 16:10:12 · 4 answers · asked by Bryan M 5

what makes the very few high school sweethearts actually marry one another?

2006-11-27 16:03:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 23 year old but my boyfirend is 56 year old, he said that if i was only 30 plus of age surely he will marry me. i don't know what's the difference if am 30 plus year old or 23 year old

2006-11-27 16:02:56 · 14 answers · asked by cuty_casper 1

2006-11-27 15:50:00 · 25 answers · asked by Rez 5

For all the people who feel that internet porn is wrong and you don't want your spouse watching or participating in that why don't you block it? If i found out my husband was using our home computer for excessive porn use, the next time he went to do it, it would be unaccesible? I've just wondered why others don't do that instead of getting all wimpy and wondering what they should do. This is not about work computers just home.

2006-11-27 15:45:44 · 23 answers · asked by 1973kimberly 2

my wife has told me she dont love me anymore, we have been together for fives, got married almost 2 years ago. can we save our married, why does she feel this way???

2006-11-27 15:43:46 · 17 answers · asked by caragon27 1

2006-11-27 15:39:51 · 19 answers · asked by maivas229 5