my wife has told me she dont love me anymore, we have been together for fives, got married almost 2 years ago. can we save our married, why does she feel this way???
2006-11-27 15:43:46 · 17 answers · asked by caragon27 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Relationships take work. Try to get her to open up to you as to why she is feeling this way. It may be more common than you realize that couples may feel like they fall in & out of love for many different reasons. Some probably just don't hear that candor coming from their other. Sounds like you want love to be in your relationship. Tell her this & see how you guys can achieve/or how you can help her regain that loving feeling. Again, I think this is more common than you know. Just during those periods some people don't confess & they move past it, it goes away, they make it work, etc. Sometimes it's really hard to open up & talk & things can come out harsh or the wrong way. Would communication therapy or relationship therapy help you guys? Ask her this, or an unbiased friend/family try to help you guys talk it thru if you guys can't do it together on your own. ~especially if you have kids. Or even if you don't because I am very vow oriented.
Best wishes to you! {hug}
2006-11-27 15:57:26 · answer #1 · answered by Nocine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try marriage counceling first? Because I think there are issues that you both need to resolve, and get out in the open, because I believe that she can love you again, but you both need to resolve these issues that's causing this loss of love. Marriage isn't easy, you have to work at it.
The problem is our society today says if it's not working out, just divorce and look for someone else that is what your looking for.
2006-11-27 15:48:54 · answer #2 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't get a divorce..work things out! Cos divorce is the easiest way out and you will regret for not doing more to save the marriage.
2006-11-27 15:52:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there does come a time when some women dont love their husband anymore and divorce is the worst thing,but its the most heathiest.. because shes telling you the truth, and when she cheats she will have a an excuse, that i dont love you and you knew that... i myself am going through someting I dont love him anymore, I dont even like him anymore and am asking for a divorce, but he wont let me go cuz he loves me too much... but I still want out. and we have a daughther together too.. I say if she wants out and wants the divorce theres noting more u can do.
2006-11-27 16:46:03 · answer #4 · answered by b2001 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should take this question to a marriage counselor. there are to many young people on her that do not understand the commitment it takes to make a marriage work. Heck if the going gets tough they go find another bf or gf nothing lost.a marriage however is a lot different. At least give it a try.
2006-11-27 15:48:19 · answer #5 · answered by Abby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a good resourse to try to save your marriage. You don't want to look back at it and wonder if you did everything in your power to save it. On the flip side. You can't do it alone and if you find yourself doing all the "fixing" of the relationship, it won't help!
Good luck to you!
2006-11-27 15:51:24 · answer #6 · answered by macuser137 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, get a divorce. This is way too early into a marriage for her to be saying this to you. There is no commitment and feel the pain, but get it over with.
2006-11-27 15:46:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes you should divorce theres no point trying to make someone stay when they dont love you two years is not long but that goes to show she was not your soal mate and what you two had was not true love because true love does not fade away like that
2006-11-27 15:50:54 · answer #8 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love comes and goes in marriage, but as long as you still have friendship then your marriage can be saved.
2006-11-27 15:46:37 · answer #9 · answered by Danielle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you feel like your marriage is worth saving work on it don't give up. but if she don't wont to just end it. because you don't need to be with no one that don't love you.
2006-11-27 15:55:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋