I am a girl with traditional back ground and I am engaged now. My would be invited me to meet once and i went there. we had a nice time ofcurce. but later he is telling that i was not up tho his expectations but he assures he love me still. he dont tell what was he expecting. infact i kept away from much romatic activities except talking. was he expecting that ? when i asked about that he said u shud know it well. and shuld not be like this. do i need to do any thing more..litle confused
2006-11-27 16:59:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm a "litle" confused by your question.
2006-11-27 17:01:16 · answer #1 · answered by two_kee_kees 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's looking for a Barbie a fake girl he is dumping you This guy deserve to get a barbie a girl who looks ok has no mind is will use him and move on and she will hurt him never love him.
He is stringing you along till barbie comes (but he assures he love me still.) Yes he's a player a user.. personally I would not call him for a few days say sorry I am busy . Go out with the girls .
when he realizes your not on a string he will sit up and take notice if he really loves you.
2006-11-28 01:15:32 · answer #2 · answered by dianehaggart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take it this is an arranged marriage.
Tell him you are not a mind reader, and that if your future marriage is to be successful, he needs to tell you exactly what he wants and needs out of a relationship. If he says he cannot do this, then it is likely in your best interests to not go through with the wedding. Your parents can find somone else for you to marry who will be more communicative.
I think you acted quite properly for not knowing him yet- betrothed or no, it was not proper of you to be "romantic". And it was improper of him to expect you to be so.
2006-11-28 01:03:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no,what u did is rite.just becoz u r engaged doesn't mean u should go into all those romantic activities.besides,u r a nice girl with traditional cultures so if u dont think he is mr.right just call it off
2006-11-28 01:05:31 · answer #4 · answered by crewrosemary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
expectations can be change by person..but you also have expectations about your life. No one can uderastand others 100%. It would be better if he can let you know what he is expecting from you, rather than making and confusing you.
2006-11-28 01:06:21 · answer #5 · answered by Ruwan F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as i know he should be pleasing you,insted of asking you to change.You are,who you are.If he doesn't like it,tell him take a haik.And you don't seem to be compatible.When you choose a life partner,he has to be the best and perfect.After all,it is for life.If he is not,loose him,he is not the one.
2006-11-28 01:13:19 · answer #6 · answered by avavu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is looking for an excuse to back out of the engagement. Perhaps his family is not sure about you. He needs to be truthful.
2006-11-28 01:02:26 · answer #7 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am sure your fiance is with another girl! After sometime she will get that answer what you got now! Just check with some other sources to know about his activities!!!
2006-11-28 01:05:35 · answer #8 · answered by SESHADRI K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break off the engagement, you have someone who thinks you're a mind reader.
2006-11-28 01:04:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're having communication problems with your fiance now, that's not a good sign. Talk to him about it, but if he wants to call it off, that's his choice.
2006-11-28 01:06:12 · answer #10 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋