English Deutsch Français Italiano Español Português 繁體中文 Bahasa Indonesia Tiếng Việt ภาษาไทย
All categories

Okay I have been Married 2 Years Dec 2nd And my wife wants to have a child, but not with me she has told me she wants a Interracial Baby, We are both White and she wants a African American-White Mixed Baby. She also has addmitted that she has been having sex with Black Male Friends(not with STD's) Unprotectedly. She maked me wear a condom because she doesnt want a White baby and hopes 1 day maybe there will be 1 race and having a non racist world im guessing. So i exchanged so no so good words to her making her really upset with me and i feel bad 1 because i upset her and 2 because im Mad myself She says she loves only me and only has sex with Afrian's until she gets preagnet? what should i do im so Sad and Depressed right now, How can i Raise another mans baby an i dont know the father?

2006-11-27 16:13:28 · 19 answers · asked by Dog209 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

19 answers

My lover says "oh yea right, your *** would be on the curb. you're having unprotected sex with strange guys, but you won't with me? get your skanky *** out of her" Which is true.

I say, I think you are 13 years old and trolling. Stay in school, kiddo.

2006-11-27 16:18:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Man, you have to love her to put up with that!!!!!!!! Maybe you don't though?!?!? Look deep inside and really find out why you would stay with someone that wants to have sex with other men to get pregnant. There are other ways to become pregnant now and none have to do with the two people having sex. You need to decide what is best for you and make it quick or yes, you will be raising another man's baby and paying for it too, I'm sure! You may find that you are staying with her because you are afraid to be alone, or the convenience of having a partner, or something else. Whatever it is, come to terms with it. You need to let her know how you feel about the situation and what you want done about it. It's your decision, but I would advise that if you stay together, you write an agreement of some sort that the biological father be financially responsible for the child. That may cause more headaches down the road, but I am sure of this, the child will one day want to know who the daddy is. Honestly, I think your wife is playing you and you need to do what is right for you, love or not. Good luck.

2006-11-27 18:59:22 · answer #2 · answered by time4me2fly 1 · 0 0

You poor guy. Like okay - I think it would be cool to have an interracial baby - like if I was married to an individual with different characteristics! I wouldn't put my husband on the line for this! That's like saying a baby is more important to her than you or your relationship. What kind of marriage is this anyway just based on the fact that she is cheating on you. Now, how does she know that the men she's sleeping with don't have AIDS or STDs - did she give you their bloodwork? Do you really think they would tell her if they were spreading sick diseases? You need to in the very least stop having sex with her at all. Condoms don't protect very well against whatever these men might have a man can transmit herpes and other stds while in a remission but still carrying it. You need to start respecting yourself more than this - you need a separation in the least. What kind of marriage is this - it's not marriage - it's Burger King - my way right away at Burger King now - that's not a good definition for marriage and like lightyears away from what it really should be for you.

2006-11-27 16:25:37 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 1 0

You know you have a right to be sad and depressed and if she doesn't understand that. Then you should let her know that it bothers you. I mean if your not ok with what she is doing and you end up not being a father to that child then what do you think she is going to do. She is wrong for doing that without your approval. You should talk to her and let her what you feel before it's too late. Maybe you guys can adopt or try a sperm clinic where she doesn't even meet the biological dad. But you need to talk to her after all she is your wife and she is making a decision for the both of you. Thats not right. You have a right to say something if she expects you to father this baby.

2006-11-27 16:26:37 · answer #4 · answered by Moni0718 2 · 1 0

See, the subject with the "nicely, a brother and sister residing co-dependently could desire to savor the comparable reward" means that no 2 right away people have *ever* abused the marriage device whilst they weren't in a romantic courting. yet a sibling couple doing so might nonetheless be legally "married"; they does not then, in turn, be allowed to marry everybody they have been quite romantically fascinated in without dissolving that partnership, with each and all the legal problems a divorce could reason. I recommend, i think if a brother/sister pair (or brother/brother or sister/sister, have been gay marriage legal) had to flow into right into a lifelong, non-romantic legal partnership, particular, they could conceivably call for they be granted marriage rights. yet such partnerships could be particularly few and much between, as i think of the social stigma of stressful you be allowed to marry your sister might probable suppress that group. A extra pertinent question could be on a thank you to deal with the form of contributors in a marriage. If marriage is unfolded from the place it quite is now, then there is the question approximately regardless of if polyamorous unions must be legally recognized. And if we then more advantageous marriage to allow, say, 4 contributors, then what approximately polygamists who experience socially ostracized because of the fact they have a 5-way courting? Polygamists and brothers wanting to marry their sisters, even nevertheless, signify a tiny, tiny fraction of yank society. Homosexuals, whilst nonetheless a minority, variety a techniques extra desirable. establishing up marriage to comparable-intercourse couples, i've got faith, is a thank you to grant those romantic pairings the comparable legal rights that are at present enjoyed via comparable partnerships, whilst minimizing the replace to the final device. particular, the "slippery slope" argument can nonetheless be utilized, yet basically because of the fact establishing up marriage to homosexuals could desire to open up a much bigger can of worms does not recommend it is not a reliable and proper ingredient to do.

2016-12-14 07:55:09 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

I think this is something you should have discussed BEFORE you got married. As far as her having sex with other men and her CLAIMING they have no STDS how does she know? Was she there when they had their blood tested? You also might want to remind her that HIV doesn't always show up for almost 20 years...She could be carrying the virus herself and not know it so you'd be smart to "stay covered" My advice is to get a lawyer and have her served with divorce papers and then tell her to feel free to have the biracial baby but you won't be there to support it or her.

2006-11-27 17:18:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

She having an affair and doesnt want your baby . Hello don't you get the message here???? The marriage is over as far as she is concerned your just paying the bills until she finds something better. You wont be raising another mans baby she will leave you

2006-11-27 16:47:10 · answer #7 · answered by Abby 6 · 0 0

That makes no sense at all !!! Why in the world would anyone do that, cheating to get pregnant with a black
male just to have a mixed child? Well, You need to say
good-bye and let her do what she has to do. Go on with your life and find a woman who loves you and wants to have your child. Don't be sad and depressed about it, it
seems that she has the problem, not you. Best wishes to you.

2006-11-27 16:23:33 · answer #8 · answered by frustrated 3 · 1 0

So your wife has taken it upon herself to save the world from RACES... Wow, she must be quite a woman.

Outside that there are doctors that can artificially inseminate you and your wife. This way she will be able to have an interracial baby and you won't have to deal with the stresses of your wife sleeping with another man, and then her dealing with those stresses that come from your stresses of her cheating on you.

Best of luck, with this and WHATEVER else might come up!

2006-11-27 16:22:28 · answer #9 · answered by Charly Bravo 3 · 0 0

When a woman loves a man, and marries him, there is nothing greater to bond that love than to have a baby, and it is a wonderful thing when one discovers the common likeness. Like, he has your nose, my eyes, etc. Babies are not puppies. It's not something you can choose, "oh I like the cute black one, or the white one".

Frankly, she has no respect for you, nor does she have any idea of what love is. You are just being used.

2006-11-27 16:20:17 · answer #10 · answered by avll 2 · 1 0

You have to be joking. Just what we need, more stupid white women raising African American people. As a mixed heritage black woman and a mother of black people, I'm highly offended by your so-called wife and her lack of logic, class and tact. Get a divorce.

2006-11-27 16:21:56 · answer #11 · answered by bb4pb510 2 · 1 0

fedest.com, questions and answers