I have been divorced for a long time and I have a lot of contact with her, I would like to get back into a relationship with her but her own kids dislike her very much and she's get back into dating. I don't know If should go for it or just let it go?
2006-11-27 16:20:25 · 9 answers · asked by nsdq95 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
why did you get divorced in the first palce? I think you know the anser in your heart of what you want to do, especially if you had to ask online. She does not sound worth it, let her go and find someone that will make you very happy
2006-11-27 16:23:03 · answer #1 · answered by Lani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didn't you learn your lesson the first time? Well it all depends on the reason you got a divorce with her. If it was because of cheating... then "NO." If it was because you were both young and rushed into things... then "give her another try." But why would you want to go back into a relationship when her own kids dislike her? It's not like there's no other woman in the world!
2006-11-28 00:25:56 · answer #2 · answered by ~dat~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really up to you and her. If she feels the same about getting together, try it out. If her kids don't really like her (I don't know how that impacts you) maybe you can be a positive influence in their lives. There is a lot of potential to either make it something great, or to cause more pain. Choose one choice and stay at that decision.
2006-11-28 00:24:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There must have been something about her you did not like too. Her own kids hate her. Man she got issues. Do you want to entangle yourself in that again????? Think twice.
2006-11-28 00:56:31 · answer #4 · answered by preferablyyoung 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If her kids hate her, it's better for you to help her get back her respect from them.After that,then it's good for both of you to try the relationship again.Good luck.
2006-11-28 00:25:32 · answer #5 · answered by ike mie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exes are exes for a reason. Life is short. Move on.
2006-11-28 00:33:54 · answer #6 · answered by bigwheeler19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a reason you are divorced, think about that reason and decide that for yourself.
2006-11-28 00:37:25 · answer #7 · answered by frustrated 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I don't know If should go for it or just let it go?"
Yeah, you do. But, you want someone to give you permission. So, here ya go:
Let it go.
2006-11-28 00:48:53 · answer #8 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the reason you guys split up. i personally would just try to move on and start fresh.
2006-11-28 00:23:24 · answer #9 · answered by jillrm_03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋