Marriage & Divorce - 27 November 2006

I am love with a man I have been dating for four years, we have lived together for one year. Not long after I moved in he cheated on me, I forgave him but I cannot forget. He said he did it because he wasn't ready for me to move in. Now we are happy and he has said he is going to propose to me this christmas which I am very excited about. Here is the but..... my eyes have started to wander and I have started to think about another man (whome I don't really know that well anyway). Am I having a delayed reaction to his cheating? Or am I feeling uncertain about him because I have only slept with three men in my life?

2006-11-27 20:54:33 · 15 answers · asked by Gaia 1

2006-11-27 20:45:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

we do not live together but i live at home with my sister and mum since separating from my husband 8 yrs ago. At present i stay 2 nghts with b'friend and my child stays 1 night with the two of us, he is slowly but surely trying to get to know her. I would like to live eleswhere but my child loves my mum and she her so I would not want them to part ever. My sister is almost 30 and single and says that i should not have a partner (especially when he asked me away on a weekend on my own with him - she said i must take my daughter) I don't think this is fair as a single mum am i entitled to have a relationship?

2006-11-27 20:44:45 · 23 answers · asked by ali 3

what you think to have a second wife if ur religion allows i mean if there is no chance ur wife she can make a baby ?

2006-11-27 20:35:30 · 4 answers · asked by kareem r 2

my husband abandoned us.and he is really such a liar and having multiple idenditty.he living in states having a lot of girls.after i got married to him year 2002,i just found out a few months ago that he still living with his live in partner,i know that before we got married he have livein partner and they have one son before we got married.hes my childhood sweetheart way back 1995 i got prgnant i was 17 that time but he left me and move in states.im living in manila right now.without no qustion at all i accepted him and got married 2002 and he said they separated with the live in partner.then he go back to state after the marriage coz he said he will our petition but recently i found he do nothing to get us and he still livin with da girl and have they have another baby.but they separated last yr coz he found out da girl have bf.then he said to me he want to divorce me coz he has anther new one.last month only he give suport for my kids.im so tired,i didnt nothin to hurt me like this

2006-11-27 20:32:24 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband will leave the house and tell me where he is going then come home hrs. later and has been so many other places than what he told me.I say this is lying to me,he disagrees and says im trying to control him,and I dont need to know where he is at 24/7.But I believe if the shoe were on the other foot it would be so different.I just want to know if you would be upset,too?

2006-11-27 20:26:56 · 12 answers · asked by charliejodie 1

My Doberman a 4 year old female named Vida found me and helped me to find my way out of the smoked filled house if Vida had not come in to find/save me I beleve Iwould have died for sure

SOME HOW SHE KNEW WHERE I WAS AND KNEW HOW TO GET OUT .......I owe my life to her.................My dog bravely came from the safety of the outside into the house on fire to rescue me and my wife just stood there not helping .....I would never ever do that to her.
So

In case I die suddenly can I leave my savings/assets to Vida and not my Wife&kids/family
And if I out live my Dog can I leave it to Animal charity or the dog I have at that time....What are the laws?


Thanks....R

2006-11-27 20:17:53 · 33 answers · asked by Brown guy 2

2006-11-27 20:16:40 · 2 answers · asked by vishal m 1

2006-11-27 20:10:40 · 12 answers · asked by vinod b 1

I am a 34 year old mother of 2 small children 6 and 4. I have been in a severely emotional and verbally abusive marriage for 8 years( together 12 years). He has been physical by choking me in the past( over 4 years ago). I have been preparing to leave him and my brother died last night. the FOURTH brother I have lost in my life. This is so painful. We were arguing when I got the call. I rushed out hte door. After visiting my mom and family I came home and he was mr niceguy and I cried on his shoulder etc. I always fall for his so called 'caring' behavior then it's thrown in my face later. I get called horrible names while he's screaming in my face, I can't do anything right and I'm not in love with him anymore. my kids run to hteir closets and he's becoming increasingly mean to them with his words. He says i'm worhtless and gets all in my face to scare me. Then he'll be nice like nothing happened. My ? is, how do I keep my emotions at bay so I can leave?

2006-11-27 19:50:56 · 21 answers · asked by Veronique 3

I've been holding off asking this but can't take it any longer. My husband is addicted to chatting with women in chat rooms and doing whatever they ask of him. Some of them also get naked and do whatever he wants them to do. Not as many women do this as men. I could be in the next room trying to sleep but knowing what he is doing on the net prevents that. I will go into the roorm and ask him to shut it down and come to bed. He gets agitated and says in a minute. Most nights he stays up all night and then goes to work. I feel rejected, lonely, second best, and most of all cheated on. On occasion, he will ask if I want to join him and "perform" for someone that wants to watch the two of us have sex. As a way to stay connected to him and spend time with him, I did try it twice. I am not comfortable having sex with my husband knowing that others are watching. I enjoy chat rooms myself but do not take off my clothes for anyone. Cheating or not? What can I do or say to stop it?

2006-11-27 19:50:19 · 12 answers · asked by time4me2fly 1

how were you able to find out that your spouse had been cheating on you?

2006-11-27 19:43:04 · 7 answers · asked by budi 2

My sister in law died yesterday in a car wreck. A man fell asleep and hit her head-on, she died instantly. In my husbands immediate family there were just two boys, no girls. My sister in law and brother in law have been married for 36 years, my husband and I 26 years. She was so much more like his parents. I feel inadequet to be the only daughter in law in this family. She was better at so many more things than I am especially cooking. Thanksgiving she cooked the dinner because our in laws are their late 80's. Do I step up now and take care of everyone?

2006-11-27 19:42:45 · 8 answers · asked by Jan G 6

2006-11-27 19:19:34 · 8 answers · asked by cat771 1

im not sure how unusual or wrong this is but when I used to have have sex with my wife and she was awake i always felt nervouse and i usually ended up shooting my load all over her stomach a minute after we start..it hasnt always been like this and latley she has been falling asleep during sex and I really really enjoy it because I am relaxed and I can do a lot more things she wont let me do normally ..more recently though she has been waking up does anyone know where I can buy chloroform or something that can make her sleep without hurting her too much?

2006-11-27 19:19:04 · 26 answers · asked by Bazil 3

2006-11-27 19:16:38 · 12 answers · asked by budi 2

I have a 17 yr old stepson from my husbands first marriage, their wife and mother passed away 2.5 yrs ago from cancer. He is a happy teenager most of the time, but come an event when our family should be building memories, he turns it into a wake, he and my husband leave the room,to console one another. My daughters 7th birthday, thanksgiving, we eloped and had a family dinner afterward, all ended with everyone feeling sad, even a family dinner out , he starts reminising about mother.
Am I being selfish, or does anyone have any creative ideas how they can morn and heal, and how I can preserve/create happy memories for my 3 kids?

2006-11-27 19:15:05 · 11 answers · asked by joycgrl 1

2006-11-27 19:13:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

what makes you happy?

2006-11-27 19:03:06 · 15 answers · asked by budi 2

how can we obtain a marriage license and who do you need to get in touch with about marrying an inmate?

2006-11-27 19:01:07 · 4 answers · asked by jack 2

I am 45, having good business, once I was totally disturbed and out of control. My secratory came to me, talked to me and before i understand she opened up her cloths and my pent and do a very very dirty oral for 1 hour. By oversight she took down whole in her mobile and now she wants more and money also, what to do?

2006-11-27 18:57:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-27 18:49:46 · 7 answers · asked by bill 2

how much are you willing to sacrifice to save your marriage?

2006-11-27 18:39:12 · 19 answers · asked by budi 2

Recently my ex wife and I had somewhat of a blowout. I had my son for a week and during the week he was sick and couldn't play outside. He's 10. Since he was indoors most of the week and I had to work part of the time I let him have several hours a day playing video games. When he went back to his mothers he pitched a fit. She only lets him have 30 minutes per day of video game or computer time. The question is: Should I limit his video time when he is with me to what she mandates. I'm looking for honest opinions from custodial parents on this issue. I don't just set him in front of the tv and leave him. 99% of the games we play together. I feel it is bonding time between us.

2006-11-27 18:38:28 · 11 answers · asked by knite_hawk1 2

My wife and I have only been married for 6 months and I find myself completely unsatisfied with our love life. She NEVER initiates sex, and always says "no" repeatedly when I try to start things up. I have to essentially beg her 5-10 times and maybe 5 times per month, she reluctantly agrees to have sex. We're both fairly attractive so I don't think that is the issue. When I ask her about this, she claims she gets turned on by this routine. I hate this routine! We are 26 years old and it would be nice if my wife's version of foreplay wasn't to consistently reject me and make me feel like she is doing me a favor by giving in. I get extremely turned on when she initiates it, and feel virtually like a scumbag for always initiating it to a partner who always seems annoyed with my advances. She thinks guys like to play hard to get. I don't, and have told her so. If I didn't initiate every single time, we would probably have sex twice a year. Any advice/similar situations???

2006-11-27 18:35:54 · 10 answers · asked by thedude 4

2006-11-27 18:23:59 · 34 answers · asked by Mark L 1

My boyfriend and I have been together over a year. We love eachother very much and we are very happy. The thing is that three months into our relationship we were ready to move into together and get married. Things were looking good and then he saw my credit report. I lost my good credit score when I had a workers comp back injury. I couldnt walk let alone work so i ended up in bad debt. When I finally got my settlement I paid every debt on my credit report. Although they are still on my report and my score is still really bad I am working my butt off to get my life back. Since he saw my credit report he no longer wants to get married right now or move in together. I had to move in with my family to take care of my dad so I dont have my own place. My boyfriend is older and has his own condo he shares with his brother. He credit score is perfect. I feel like not matter what I do I will never be good enough for us to move forward. Im beside myself trying to figure what I can do. Help!!!

2006-11-27 18:17:12 · 32 answers · asked by Stephanie Ann 1

2006-11-27 18:11:51 · 6 answers · asked by gkouh22 1

my wife is 7 months pregant and she doesnt feel comfortable being naked in front of me. I tell her all the time that she is so beautiful but she still feels shy and wants me to leave the room when she gets dressed...She has always been like this even when she wasnt pregnant..I asked her why and she said she doesnt know why she cant get dressed in front of me that she has always been like that even in previous relationships... She only gets naked when we are about to make love and the room has to be dark.. Is it me? Why cant my wife be naked in front of me?

2006-11-27 18:01:05 · 13 answers · asked by speedfreak 1

We separated prior to the Hurricane, should i get a divorce or continue to look for him. i still Love him. He's twenty years younger then me and from Hunduras, very handsome and sound. I've exusted my funds looking for him on line. help

2006-11-27 17:58:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous