I am 45, having good business, once I was totally disturbed and out of control. My secratory came to me, talked to me and before i understand she opened up her cloths and my pent and do a very very dirty oral for 1 hour. By oversight she took down whole in her mobile and now she wants more and money also, what to do?
2006-11-27 18:57:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ok.. so frome what I gather she taped it on her mobile phone. She came on to you and now is extoring money so she wont tell HR or your wife...
Sounds like I would come clean with you wife first (if you are married) apologize and tell her exactly what happened..make it up to your wife
IF the woman started it and you didnt..then you contributed..but asking for money in return for not ruining your life is very wrong.
IF the mobile movie shows your side of the story which it should show her ENJOYING IT..then I would talk to Human resources and tell them what happened..it was mutual and now you have her asking for money to keep quite..
Your company legal team will see what they can do
I cant say if the company would fire you for liability or not..but honesty is everything
2006-11-27 19:05:09 · answer #1 · answered by giveu2tictacs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only understood the first part of your story but I didn't get the last part which is more important, will u pls do me a favour and post that question again and this time around it should be clear and u should send it to seonduru@gmail.com
2006-11-27 22:19:54 · answer #2 · answered by Selly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Sir,
If you are married, disclose all the details to your wife first and get her excuses. Then you take legal action against your secretary. Don't hide anything to the legal authorities. Leave the rest to god. Don't give up to your secretaries blockmailing.
2006-11-27 20:00:59 · answer #3 · answered by Saravanan S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing, you can do is let her show that to all, and don't give any money to her.Completely deny its you in the mobile.Be careful in future for not going out of control. leave rest on GOD.
2006-11-27 19:07:26 · answer #4 · answered by yjph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not get blackmailed. Let her make it public. No harm is gonna come to you. Face the world. You are not at fault.
2006-11-27 19:59:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
fire her this could turn ugly and is illegal under the employer over employee act say that u cant have sex with a employee in business setting
2006-11-27 19:02:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bill !? is this you, its me Monica! its hard to take a question with so many gramatical and spelling errors seriously
2006-11-27 19:22:04 · answer #7 · answered by joycgrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
blackmail. hmm. if you are rich, get some guys to steal her mobile. do it real clean . she cant accuse u anymore. unless she use your semen on her panties. and that **** can be nasty
2006-11-27 23:40:15 · answer #8 · answered by paranoid-android 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and a partridge in a pear tree
2006-11-27 19:30:35 · answer #9 · answered by -------- 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like bribery. you may talk with police.
2006-11-27 19:03:21 · answer #10 · answered by Tarpaulin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋