2006-11-27 19:19:34 · 8 answers · asked by cat771 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is normal, Honey. Hormones!!
2006-11-27 19:23:55 · answer #1 · answered by -------- 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be depression. It could be that your husband is not tending to your needs. Maybe you need some me time. Getting away from the home, kids and hubby for a little while can work wonders. Don't say but I work, I mean you time. Sign up for a class, a sport, a book club, go out with girlfriends once a week. Something, anything, that you can do that is enjoyable for you, outside of the home, without your family. Good luck!
2006-11-27 19:47:50 · answer #2 · answered by bellbottombleus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know to tell ya the truth. I'm like you except that it's been 12yrs for me. Sometimes it's the fact that I'm really not doing what I want to do in other aspects of my life. I think that not having having the time to do things that I used to do kinda makes me feel lonely as well, and I don't have the close friends that I used to have, to talk/vent with as well. Any of that sound similar? Should we start our own support group?:)
2006-11-27 19:46:42 · answer #3 · answered by Eric 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you aren't able to communicate with your husband as much as you need to.
Are you a full-time mother and a part-time wife?
Make "grown-up" time with your spouse a WEEKLY event and FOCUS on your sexual relationship with him. It's easy for BOTH parents to allow the kids to take over all aspects of the family focus, but you two adults were the ones that started the whole thing. Go BACK to that relationship regularly.
2006-11-27 19:36:18 · answer #4 · answered by R J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, sometimes we get stuck in a rut....Bills sure don't help. Stress, watching the news is depressing.....maybe your just a little depressed.....kids all doing their thing, hubby works, maybe alot, or not enough, maybe you don't have alot of outs, like going somewhere, doing something for yourself....since your question is kind of vague, it is hard to really give any advice. Try and change your routine. Go for a nice walk, or soak in a hot bubble bath, or go treat yourself to something, lunch with a friend, or a movie, or start a new hobby, or go back to the one you used to do......there are lots of things in the community you could do to meet some new people and maybe make some new friendships.....just try to not let it consume you, go out and do something!!....best of luck to you, and have a nice holiday season.....
2006-11-27 19:32:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
You must be in the age group of 50 plus and must be working lady. This is very common problem with your type of ladies. when children becomes independent ( may not be staying with you) , husband is busy in his affairs. You who had cared for them is free and finds nobody is caring for you or needs you.
Solutions to this problem is get your self busy with extra caricular activities such as social work , hobbies etc. which will divert your attention and make you busy and you will come out of this loneliness problem.
Enjoy Life
2006-11-27 19:29:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, you have three children that takes up at least 16 hours of your day and another four hours is for hubby. What do you do for yourself? Do you have friends, hobbies, job, "me time"? You have four hours left, do something for yourself!
2006-11-27 19:28:02 · answer #7 · answered by icuassist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cannot understand your question?
you say your husband is only 15 years, he is only like a kid, just play with him, you silly girl..............
2006-11-27 19:24:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋