My husband will leave the house and tell me where he is going then come home hrs. later and has been so many other places than what he told me.I say this is lying to me,he disagrees and says im trying to control him,and I dont need to know where he is at 24/7.But I believe if the shoe were on the other foot it would be so different.I just want to know if you would be upset,too?
2006-11-27 20:26:56 · 12 answers · asked by charliejodie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
guys get sidetracked...its not being unfaithful...but if there is something shiny down the road...then we are there !!!
LOL...trust is the key !!
2006-11-27 20:29:09 · answer #1 · answered by admiralawesome2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand how u feel, but the more u ask and get upset the more u give him and his ego satisifaction.some times when hes tells u that he going out say ok and when he comes home late or later than the time he said he'll be home just pretend u r ok and smile, he'll start thinking that may be when he goes away u also go somewhere, and it will start making him feel jeolous and he will be home earlier than u expect him. it works 4 me.
2006-11-27 20:36:54 · answer #2 · answered by white fung 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. The next time he leaves the house, you leave to go out too and don't come back before he does. Go clubbing, go to your friend's place, or go shopping.
2006-11-28 03:27:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So then why not put the shoe on the other foot and show him what it feels like. Maybe he'll come to his senses.
2006-11-27 20:31:28 · answer #4 · answered by jesshispet 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
meh. Guys go places. if he really loves you, hes telling the truth..
i myself never just go where i am saying. im distracted easily, i usually go and do what i said i was gonna, but if i find somthihng more interesting afterwards, i do that, and so on.
i wouldnt worry. its what guys do.
2006-11-27 20:29:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jst take it easy.....if he feels that u try to control him give him space.Change ur self try to b cool n dont be septic u will feel the diff n even then things dont change then talk to ur frds
2006-11-27 20:35:59 · answer #6 · answered by neha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men get defensive when they are cheating on u.when my ex stayed gone for hours, he was cheating. relationships should be built on trust and when u talk to him about your concerns he shouldn't get defensive. keep your eyes open.
2006-11-28 12:06:23 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit biitching and go with him. Maybe he leaves cause you're boring.
2006-11-27 20:30:32 · answer #8 · answered by I know!! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
act like himself
2006-11-27 20:30:00 · answer #9 · answered by M*K*H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.Work to develop trust.Or leave.
2006-11-27 20:30:58 · answer #10 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋