2006-11-27 20:45:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well virginity should not really be a big issue, but of course it would only be an additional blessings for you to found a girl whose virgin.
2006-11-27 20:56:41 · answer #1 · answered by *Pretty Pink* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a woman, I think your question is so silly! Both my lover and I have had previous sexual relationships. The number was certainly not 20 or 30, but I don't think numbers matter. I think the only thing that really matters when considering whether or not someone has past sexual experience is that a person is free from STI's. Someone who slept with 1 other person could have HIV while someone who slept with 150 different people could be free of STI's. Numbers don't matter.
As for whether or not someone is good in bed, we all started out as virgins and we all have to teach our lovers about our bodies/likes and dislikes. I don't see sex as something so sacred or emotional that this sort of physical intimacy should be only for a life partner. I think what is more important is safety and mutual respect. Sex can be many things for many people as can respect.
Oh, and did you know that women have sex for the same reasons that men stereotypically have sex and sometimes men 'make love'? It's sort of ignorant to assume that a woman who has a lot of sex is a sl*t with low self esteem rather than a human being who simply enjoys sex. If you veiw a woman having pre-marital sex as something dirty, unnatural, wrong or whatever, you better be a virgin. No woman should lower herself to marrying you otherwise. That's worse than having a few sexual partners because she's degrading herself and her sexuality by accepting your double standard. This will probably make her insecure and uncomfortable and unconfident with her sexuality leading to a rather crappy married sex life.
2006-11-27 22:37:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Virginity is a state by which the hymen of the girl is still intact.. some may loose it accidentally or unknowingly without having had any sex activity. If through having relationship she lost it..as in because she had given herself totally to someone in hope of having a lasting relationship ..having been vulnerable..or if she had with a few more.. would she have opted for a virgin man at all???or when she gave herself was it only the hymen she gave up??..On the contrary..I do not agree that girls should give in too easily to sex just to get their men. ..20 or 30 ?? has love got to do with it or lust.. just a piece of mind ..MEN..you would always want to have a woman who you could be proud and so you always want to be the FIRST.. women..I wonder why often you want your man to be the LAST...
2006-11-27 21:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by CYRILLE102 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can marry the virgin girl, and then go use the men's bathroom. Then I'll have been where 20-30 guys have been before and bagged the virgin.
2006-11-27 20:48:38 · answer #4 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd rather marry a woman with some experience. A woman without it will later wish she had been with someone other than just her husband and might be prone to an affair or leaving altogether. She will wonder what it would be like with another man and might worry that she had missed out on a better lover since she had nothing to compare you to. A woman with experience might also be more passionate and a better lover and I know that although she could have had other men, she chose me over them. Also she has sewn the wild oats most likely and is sure that you are what she wants.
2006-11-27 20:50:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a man but I can answer that from a woman's point of view. 20-30...NO. When I married my husband he had been with 2 or it may be 3. I had the best of both worlds. He was clean and he was also great. The 2 he had been with taught him well. LOL. I was just glad I "knew where he had been" and didn't have to worry but I was also glad I didn't have to "teach" him.
2006-11-27 20:57:53 · answer #6 · answered by kenntonip 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once knew a virgin girl who married a virgin boy and well that lasted about 12 months....
2006-11-27 20:52:22 · answer #7 · answered by lol_des 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Or look at it from her point of view, would she like to marry you knowing that you have been with mulitple partners before??? Something to think about.
Hope you are a virgin as well
2006-11-27 22:22:45 · answer #8 · answered by kelsey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Something new isn't always good for you.I'd take the more experience woman.
2006-11-27 20:48:31 · answer #9 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter. Everybody lies about their sexual history anyway.
2006-11-27 20:47:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋