I have been with this guy for 8yrs, married for 5 of that. i thought everything was going good, when we went out one night and had a few beers together and then decide to go home early. we get home and he tries to pick a fight with me and then decides to leave. i decide to follow him cause he has been acting weird. I find him pulling up to some girls house and goes in. I go to knock on the door and she answers the door and says he's not there, when his truck is parked in front. well i leave and he stays there all night. he comes home the next afternoon, and we talk and he says that he didn't do anything wrong and that he never touch the other woman. should i believe that??
2006-11-27 06:33:20 · 13 answers · asked by MEL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Okay sleeping at ANY other womans house when you are married is wrong. Leaving during a disagreement WRONG. Believe him or not if you let this go he will think it's acceptable behavior and he and that woman are the Only ones who think its acceptable. It's all in what YOU can live with and what You can forgive. WIthout trust there is no marraige.. Good luck
2006-11-27 06:49:06 · answer #1 · answered by prettyfroggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you believe him............then you also believe that a circle is square!!!! No way would a married man spend the night with some other woman, and have nothing happen! Since he knew right where this woman lived.......you can be sure that he's been there before!!!!! Dump his rump!
2006-11-27 14:38:15 · answer #2 · answered by Lori 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt, but you are free to believe what you choose to believe.
The fact that he'd rather spend the nite with someone besides you is reason enough to let her have the piece of $hit that he is!
2006-11-27 14:47:45 · answer #3 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you believe him you are stupid.he picked a fight on purpose, for an excuse to leave.he was caught.if nothing was going on with them...why didn't he come out of the house?you should've towed his truck since it was in that ladies drive way and he "wasn't there" .I bet he would,ve came out then.
2006-11-27 14:39:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you believe that then you can go right ahead and ignore the rash you will end up with if you keep being involved with this man...
2006-11-27 14:42:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!!
NO!!!!
NO!!!!
sorry but men do not stay the night in another womans house, and not touch them. doesn't happen. it is in their nature. he had no bussiness staying at another womans house. that is what a faithful husband does, goes home.
2006-11-27 14:40:15 · answer #6 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope.
Cheater. Liar.
2006-11-27 14:35:59 · answer #7 · answered by snippers72 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't believe it. Sounds like a sad story to me.
2006-11-27 14:37:08 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure.
I have some nice homestead plots on the moon that you can buy cheap too.
2006-11-27 14:36:49 · answer #9 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that he wants out of the marriage.
2006-11-27 14:38:21 · answer #10 · answered by AnnieD 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋