2006-11-27 06:39:07 · 15 answers · asked by preety_roshi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Give him a chance to improve.This can be done by your going away on vacation or living with your parents etc.You also introspect and find out if you are adding fuel to the fire.He may also have a lot of things to say about you that you may not like to listen. Try your best to patch up and make him understand that this relationship will go on if there is trust and tolerance.In the mean time improve yourself academically and professionally. If after all these attempts, both of you cannot make up, then divorce will be the last recourse.
2006-11-27 13:16:03 · answer #1 · answered by Ishan26 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know for sure what is going on there, but i can tell you from personal experience that if there are lies in a marriage it won't survive. you should talk to him openly and ask him why he lies to you- maybe it's that he has some problems and wanted to avoid scandal in the family and so he lied about this. or maybe he's just a liar-in this case nothing will change him and once trust is gone there's no true relationship. as for his greediness, i don't know what to say, because it's not clear in which way he's greedy. do you depend on him financially? if so, then try to find a job yourself so as not to depend on him anymore, and see what happens, maybe he'll change his attitude.
you may not want to talk to your family about your problems to spare them, but you have to try to talk to your husband about these problems anyway and try to find a solution together. if he doesn't cooperate, maybe he doesn't really want this marriage to work, but at least you have tried to give it a second chance.
you have to be strong for yourself and if you see you can't improve your marriage get a divorce. you can't change people- it only happens in movies- and life is too short and precious to waste it in a failed marriage.good luck
2006-11-27 15:17:59 · answer #2 · answered by monica06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could use more information. But in general it sounds like things have gone from bad to worse for you. I think you will have to decide whether this is temporary, fixable or a permanent character defect for which their is no cure. Get it hashed out early rather than suffer for years with an unsolvable malignant condition.
2006-11-27 06:47:38 · answer #3 · answered by haditforgood 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I presume you are having financial problem with your husband due to
his habbits. If this is the reason just talk to your family and to him directly if he isfinancially dependant on you. let him not take you for a ride.
2006-11-27 06:52:23 · answer #4 · answered by bhupesh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he is lieing to you honey then it is not a good relationship to begin with the way i have always thought was if someone lies to you in a relationship end it because they cant posible love you if they are lieing to you honesty is always the best policy
2006-11-27 11:46:33 · answer #5 · answered by April A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your husband didn't expect things to be worse when he becomes a greedy liar?? of course he did. Now, what are you going to do about it?
2006-11-27 06:50:36 · answer #6 · answered by upside down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit together and try to solve the problem with yourself
2006-11-27 08:13:02 · answer #7 · answered by ~~Y~~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
roshi i can not understand what is ur problem dear ask another question and give some detail too so that people can give u answer of your problem....
2006-11-27 06:45:56 · answer #8 · answered by jagrati 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you just hav ta get over it
2006-11-27 06:41:16 · answer #9 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ??????????? Were the heck did you learn english. On TV.
2006-11-27 06:52:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋