Without harming any of the children. As safely as possible.
2006-11-27 07:38:47 · 8 answers · asked by sweetie pie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Pack up and run away. Put 1500 miles distance between you and your soon to be ex. It's better that way.
2006-11-27 07:41:26 · answer #1 · answered by Zelda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know yourself best.
This is a situation where I doubt anyone can give you any concrete advice, because we dont know all of the circumstances. I do wish you the best of luck though, it does sound like you need to get out. Maybe get your family to help you out a bit though. Here is the National Domestic Violence Hotline:
1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
Im not going to lead you through a mess of websites that might be left in the history of your computer. You do need to be careful about what you do look up on the internet, etc. - for your own sake if it is a shared computer at home.
Make the call from a safe place too.
best wishes.
2006-11-27 15:45:59 · answer #2 · answered by designerista 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with those two things happening in a marriage - you take your kids and leave..... staying would only bring more hardship and suffering .
Get yourselves into counseling - get a lawyer and work on child support etc. --- do not be alone with your spouse - handle things through the court/lawyer. When it's time for child visitations exchange kids in a very public place or have others around your home when he comes to get them or brings them back. You can't change him (he has to get help for himself) --- all you can do is get help/protection for yourself and make a stable/safe environment for the kids. Don't be afraid to call or ask for help ---
2006-11-27 15:46:48 · answer #3 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear this. I hate women beaters! Well, I would inform my family that I will be needing their assistance here shortly. I would wait until he left and get our things and just leave. I know, easier said then done, but this seems like the simplest way. I mean, when he's at work, you stay home, pack y'all stuff, and go. Don't look back. Good luck, God bless!
2006-11-27 15:45:44 · answer #4 · answered by shondak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all get help mentally and emotionally... Call an abuse hotline and see if there is a local abuse shelter you and your children can go to... GET OUT NOW!!!!!!!!!!! Do not stay in any abusive relationship.... Is your spouse hitting you?
2006-11-27 15:47:06 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There a people you can call that can help you in this situation. I would google the information you need. Maybe counselors, police, therapists, or google abuse/rape/leaving my husband...etc... I am not sure who the right people would be, but I am sure that the internet or the police could help you more.
2006-11-27 15:53:53 · answer #6 · answered by faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pack a bag close the door on u way out
2006-11-27 16:17:41 · answer #7 · answered by heronshores 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me know!
2006-11-27 15:42:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋