SHE IS NOT HAPPY WITH HIM AT ALL BUT SHE SCARED SHE WILL HURT THE KIDS IF SHE LEAVES HIM WHAT SOULD I DO?
2006-11-27 08:00:42 · 11 answers · asked by jec110779 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Stop messing with another mans wife. You just might get shot someday.
2006-11-27 08:08:46 · answer #1 · answered by camys_daddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One should never ever stay for the sake of the kids. Children are very observant and can tell when Mom and Dad arent happy. That alone causes alot of tension and so with that said she should be strong enough to leave her husband if she doesnt love him. And its never a good thing to go directly from one relationship to another but its usually the way people leave each other. It gives them a good reason to leave. You should take a stand and tell her you understand it takes time but depending on how long this has been going on you should set a date for her to make up her mind that is reasonable and if she still cannot do it..well sorry to say but dump her.
2006-11-27 16:09:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep "playing" this game the more the two of you will suffer. In the end, it might be YOU the one left out because usually, when there are kids involved, rarely does the other person leave his or her spouse.
If she is TRULY happy and her marriage cannot be saved, then she must make a decision NOW for everyone's sake. You are playing with fire when you mess around with a married person!!
2006-11-27 16:21:37 · answer #3 · answered by nowhere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are she would have left by now if she truly loves you. Of course the children will be hurt, no one gets out unscathed in a divorce, but many people proceed if they are indeed in love with another person besides their spouse. This woman is being very unfair to you, her husband, and her children. Be careful she could do the same to you later.
2006-11-27 16:11:19 · answer #4 · answered by crkristy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she won't leave him because of the kids, then she has made her decision to stay with her husband. Leave her alone and let her decide what to do. Why would you want to be with someone who has cheated in a relationship? No matter what you say, you will never fully trust her. And if you do... (ok, I can give you that...) She will never trust you for what "she" has done.
2006-11-27 16:10:04 · answer #5 · answered by Denise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should really back outta this kinda of relationship.Its wrong to involved with a married person.If she is not happy then let her decide what is best.Dont get involved.Espially in a marriage where you shouldnt be in the first place.no matter how much you love ..Step back and let this couple make there own choices..
2006-11-27 16:08:53 · answer #6 · answered by Brenda V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone that can offer you a life together and does not have luggage. kids thats a very touchy one and she probably wont leave b/c of them. so move on eventually
2006-11-27 16:05:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of the picture. She got married to him not You.
2006-11-27 16:06:21 · answer #8 · answered by tammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her and tell her to love her husband instead of you. Remember the lake of fire!
2006-11-27 16:26:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she really loved you she would be with you ! kids heal pretty quickly in this situation !
2006-11-27 16:05:14 · answer #10 · answered by Barbie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋