My husband wants be to "talk" to him during intercouse.?

Question

I am struggling to think of things to say that aren't a repeat of what we have heard in movies. Everything sounds so cliche'. Any suggestions?

Answer 1

Google the words "dirty" and "talk", you'll get plenty of sources.

Then again, he may just want some feedback on the "success" of his attentions to you. You know a progress report of sorts. "Feels good", ""gettting closer", that sort of thing.

Or, he might want some instructions on what you like.

Answer 2

Talk to him about what he wants but cliches are not as bad as you think as long as they are give a "heart" felt delivery. If you sound like you are repeating old dialog it will ruin things, but if you gasp or moan it like you can hardly keep it together enough to get the words out, you will be a BIG hit. Ever wanted to be an actress? Well, here's your close up.

Answer 3

Try thinking of what you would say after a extended absence between the two of you. Heck find a secluded area and pull off and make out like teenagers. Surprize the man. Think about your favorite way to see him. flannel shirt and blue jeans does it for me. Buy him a short robe? silk boxers, men don't mind playing dress up when it turns you on. use some whip cream or honey and tell him how delicious he is. Hee hee I should write romance novels.

Answer 4

Girl go for it. Tell him how good it feels or what you want him to do... Can get very steamy. Just turn the lights off so you don't feel too uncomfortable. You should be will to do what ever your hubby wants and he the same! (with in reason) Maybe this will open a new side to your sex life and maybe he can do some thing for you.

Answer 5

Why is cliche bad?

Read him a grocery list. He may just want to hear your voice. My wife's voice does a lot for me.

If that doesn't do it, tell him one of your fantasies. It doens't have to be sexual, but talk in a sexy voice. My wife told me once about a fantasy to own a pet store, good enough for me.

Talk about what you did for the day.

If he has something in particular he wants you to say, he should give you more directions.

Answer 6

Just speak truthfully about what is happening in the moment or what you would like to happen. Tell him about what's happening to your body if you are getting hot when he licks you here or wet when he .....
It will seem awkward because you aren't in the habit of it. He may like to hear vulgar slangs ; you will have to ask him. You also don't have to tell anyone else what you say or do with him. That is private and meant only for you guys.

Answer 7

Go with the flow and whatever comes naturally to you. Be in the moment, and don't feel ashamed or silly, He is your husband after all. And this will add some spice and excitement to the relationship. Lucky girl! Good luck and God bless*****

Answer 8

There's actually a book in the bookstores called something like "How to talk dirty." I know how you feel. I can't think of anything to say that doesn't sound just kind of dumb, but I do - and he loves it. Take the chance, it's worth it.

Answer 9

Guys always seem to want girls to talk "dirty" during sex but I always feel stupid and then lose the mood. So I just don't talk. You don't have to but if you want there are plenty of books and articles online that help you feel more comfortable with talking during sex and things to say. They mostly want you to tell them what you want and how good it feels and what you want them to do to you. It's all in the mind. Check out the link below. It has tons of stuff on sex and relationships. Just click on the sex tab when you go to the site:) Hope this helps.

Answer 10

Just let loose and yell the first thing that comes to mind, and don't be shy. I am more than sure many people just want to express themselves, but might be reluctant to do so, because they did not know the outcome, but what the hell, go for it.