My mother-in-law is getting much closer than she used too. I don't want to tell my wife, I don't know what to think. I don't want to hurt either. I was in the shower once and she said If I needed help washing my back. I ask on how she got in and she laughed and said your wife showed me.
2006-11-27 05:49:48 · 24 answers · asked by r m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
oh oh your mother in law is coming on to you ............... lock the door when you're in the shower! and tell your wife about this ,,
2006-11-27 05:53:17 · answer #1 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now, dear sir, you are a big boy .Nobody on here has to draw you a picture that she is trouble BIG TIME , and if you don't tell your wife about this pronto you are a big fool . Trust me when I tell you, she will give you all the blame if your wife discovers you both together even in the smallest compromising situation .She is the victim and you big boy ,will stand there and not know what hit you .
Stay away from her and never be alone for an instant with that schemer .
2006-11-27 05:59:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting..
Find some way to ask your wife about it without totally
giving away your suspicians about her mother...
If wife is OK sharing you with Mom then great...
But don't cause a problem between Wife & Mom without
any more than a suspician...
It is easy enough to tell Mom you are not interested and without
making a big deal out of it and causing any hard feelings..
2006-11-27 05:59:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to discover "polyamory" and you and your wife get involved with it...then you can have your mother-in-law wash your back or anything else.
I know many will be unhappy about what I say because you do not know the truth of polyamory. I suggest you read the website I have listed below before you draw your guns and fire.
2006-11-27 06:18:38 · answer #4 · answered by pinelake302 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mom in rules are a discomfort interior the butt. yet they are there to stay. i assume its a case of administration. In life we get to administration a brilliant style of human beings so its solid prepare. floor regulations, no smacking son, tell her you do not believe in smacking toddlers finished end. Your husband should additionally face enterprise in this. It choose not be a war of words yet in basic terms a assertion. You cant substitute her, yet you could substitute your reactions to her, and plus you could pick the place you reside. I hate staying in not very sparkling places in certainty I also have a protracted record of needs formerly i will stay everywhere, so don't experience undesirable. i don't! So the two persist mutually with your lie, the cat difficulty. Or be certain you deliver your individual bedding and issues to the room you reside in so as which you have a haven to flee to. faraway from pungent cat litters etc., Plus shop the door closed. positioned some scented candles around, I do this for the period of inns to get the inn feeling away and positioned across my very own pillows. MIL's continuously think of they are being helpful till they are undeniable evil so perhaps see how she would be in a position to be useful on your son as they many times do love their grannies!
2016-10-13 05:20:40 · answer #5 · answered by dudik 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trouble is brewing, the Mother In Law is wanting to be young again.I would have told my wife about her asking to wash my back, that was let's get it on ,question. Shame on her , tell her off and tell her if you do this one more I'm telling my wife and your husband. She is nuts.
2006-11-27 05:56:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Tell your wife all of it.
2) Let your wife decide:
a) Your wife talks to her Mother
or
b) You talk to her Mother
3) She should be told:
a) That what she is doing is out of order and unacceptable.
b) You are not, and never will be attracted to her.
c) If it continues, you will tell the rest of the family.
d) if it continues, you will cut off contact with her.
Stop her now before something worse happens.
2006-11-27 05:55:10 · answer #7 · answered by Scott D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put a stop to it now! Tell your mother-in- law to get lost if she can't conduct herself like a real mother-in-law, instead a hotsy moma
2006-11-27 05:56:02 · answer #8 · answered by bettys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont listen to girls and tell your wife!!!!!! That could do serious damage. Simply tell your MIL (for morons that means MotherInLaw) that, although she is still attractive (even if she is as ugly as sin!), you are in love with your wife and she needs to send her husband to "make your wife sexually happy school"! I would o0nly get really worried if your FIL started coming on to you!
2006-11-27 06:03:29 · answer #9 · answered by fiercedong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be a joke but it could also be a menopausal woman with raging hormones. Tell your wife you are a bit concerned about the way she is invading your space. Hopefully a quiet word from her daughter will do the trick.
2006-11-27 05:54:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my, tell her to back off and that you are in love with her daughter. I would tell your wife too, even tho she may not believe it and become mad, this will open up her eyes to watch and see how her mother is treating you. Of course, this is a tricky situation, but geez, if she is offering to wash your back in the shower, something needs to be done!!!
2006-11-27 05:53:07 · answer #11 · answered by sybnlvr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋