2006-11-27 05:37:14 · 17 answers · asked by thinkmovement 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because they come into their second marriage with baggage from the first marriage. And also they think that they will be able to find in their second marriage what they wanted in their first marriage, but alot of times, they never find it. Also I think people wouldn't have the first divorce if they treated their partners with respect, and thought of their partner and their feelings and needs, instead of thinking of themselves first. I think that would help alot. Also instead of when problems come up, that they work at resolving issues instead of running from them.
2006-11-27 05:42:41 · answer #1 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Because most who choose divorce never really face the problems that lead to the divorce.
When someone chooses divorce, many times they totally blame their spouse and do not look at their own contribution to the problems in the relationship.
So, since they are blind to their own problems, they fail to grow and learn from the experience and repeat the same mistakes, ending up divorced again.
Too many people expect marriage to be fun 24x7 and fail to realize that is a comittment and comittments mean work too.
2006-11-27 07:44:56 · answer #2 · answered by camys_daddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's true that second marriages have a higher divorce rate I think it's because quitting has become so highly acceptable in society. Once you teach yourself how to quit, it gets easier and easier.
We live in a microwave society. We want instant results. If it's not working, quit and start something new. Sad really.
2006-11-27 05:46:17 · answer #3 · answered by greatlyblessed@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See all the answers and put them together. If people would be willing to look in the mirror and fix their problems instead of pointing out others then there would be no need for divorce in the first place. They also have to teach women how to respect and honor their husbands without forgetting to teach the husbands to love their wives (not just physically either)
2006-11-27 05:48:41 · answer #4 · answered by D J Honestly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because everyone is positive that their spouse was the problem in the first marriage and never bothered to think that there was anything wrong with themselves. These problems get magnified and they end up getting into a relationship that was the same as the first but this time they already know how to get out of it.
2006-11-27 05:39:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
i have self belief the divorce price is so intense on 2d marriages, because the people were given divorced the first time - and did not paintings on the excuses, or the themes that were taking place of their first marriage and in simple terms took them with them. regularly people want to blame others for a failed marriage, at the same time as truly the problem lies interior themselves..
2016-11-27 01:53:09 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you never changed what was wrong with divorce number one. you can not keep putting apple pies in the oven and expect them to come out cheese cake. there was a reason for the first divorce and it was not just the other partners fault,look at your own behaviour, and see what needs to be done
2006-11-27 05:55:53 · answer #7 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would expect the divorce process comes easier the 2nd time around.
2006-11-27 05:40:26 · answer #8 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually because of issues with his and her kids, ex's, alimony, child support, unrealistic expectations (Brady Bunch), unresolved past issues like divorcing rather than resolving conflicts.
2006-11-27 05:40:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because people know better than to try to stick it out with something that just will not work....
Freedom and being alone is better than a disfunctional marriage.
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2006-11-27 05:39:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋