what causes most divorces in a couples marriage? do you think?

Answer 1

Infidelity, dishonesty, lack of communication, lack of respect.

Answer 2

One study showed that the following predicted divorce (in no particular order):

1. marriage before age 24
2. large difference in age
3. different religions
4. difference in educational level
5. difference in socioeconomic background


And money advisors claim that money issues are the number 1 cause of problems in a marriage. Probably not just making money (not making enough), but also how to spend and how to invest.

Answer 3

Only full consent marriages are acceptable to the eyes of God. Full consent means that both parties must know all the important qualities and shortcomings of the other spouse, and that there are no coercitive reasons for the marriage, example: sexual needs, economic needs, social pressure, parental pressure, PREGNANCY. If she wants to divorce because she discovered that you have certain problems that you did not disclose earlier,(whether economical, physical, temperamental, one or several MISTRESS) then you should annul the marriage, because the marriage is not valid before God anyway. God only accepts full consent marriages because he wants couples to be happy and there cannot be happiness when one of the parties feels s/he's been entrapped, "had", lied to. If she already wants to divorce, there must be something very wrong with your marriage, unless she is extremely manipulative.

Answer 4

I think marriage is the number one cause of divorce lol

But seriously, I think it's probably financial stress that causes the most divorces. Having money problems can really eat away at the best of relationships.

Answer 5

There is a difference in Tolerating flaws and accepting flaws. We all have flaws, but if you only tolerate them, well in 3, 5, 10, 20, 40, years you will blow up and won't be able to handle them. If you accept them from the begining then it should not be an issue down the road.
That, and geting married to someone you don't know 100% because you were in LA LA land and didnt inquire.

Answer 6

i think it is a combination of a few things, most likely isssues with money and children cause problems because when people get married most times its just the two of them they have to worry about, then once they bring children into the relationship they cant handle the stress together, also people are so quick to give up on their relationships, once they start arguing and fighting they just decide thats it and dont even try to fix their relationship, really its sad, especially bc there are so many kids hurt by divorce.

Answer 7

Poor communication before marriage. If you talk over how you feel about fidelity, religion, money, goals in life, children, etc. before you get married, and are on the same page, your marriage has a much better chance of surviving anything.

Answer 8

Well the things that happen is a person gets to comfortable in their marriage and become bored and they wonder away and sometimes think they would be happier with some one else

Answer 9

That 50% of a marriage is a man.

Answer 10

Money is a primary cause but so is cheating. But, cheating is normally a symptom of something else.

Norm