We Are In The Middle Of Divorce Now.
2006-11-27 01:18:02 · 24 answers · asked by rosanky1952 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Unless you can reconcile, probably not
2006-11-27 01:19:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you made it clear to her that you want her back? Sometimes, when people don't speak up about what they want, the other person has no idea. At least try to talk to her to see if you both can halt divorce proceedings so that the two of you can take some time to think about things before you make a drastic move.
I guess it also depends on the circumstances of the divorce and how forgiving both of you are towards each other. Whatever happens, I wish you the best and hope you find happiness.
2006-11-27 09:22:30 · answer #2 · answered by KristenOne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her how much you love her if you want her to come back to you. And if you did anything wrong to result in the divorce, then you should convince her of how sorry you are and make her understand that you wont ever hurt her again. Just do what you think is right. Sort out your feelings for her and let your spirit guide you. Good Luck!
2006-11-27 09:22:15 · answer #3 · answered by R Jay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want a woman who wants to divorce u. Its obvious she doesn't love u anymore. Love is a two way street man. It'll hurt for a while but u will find a better one in the future. Or maybe its you who has the faults...so I suggest in sorting them out with her and maybe she will come back to u....
2006-11-27 09:21:36 · answer #4 · answered by BretH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would have to say no, but why are you getting a divorce? Have you tried counseling? If you both know why then you should try and work it out. It's not final until the papers are signed.
2006-11-27 09:21:31 · answer #5 · answered by Fred G. Sanford 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not. Divorce is big step that requires courage and a real desire to end the marriage. This is usually done as a last recourse and the result is that one usually believes that it's the right thing to do when they do it.
Never say never they say, but I wouldn't hold my breath.
2006-11-27 09:23:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The better question is will you two come together again? I went back to my husband because he did and said the right things and then lived up to them. BUT we both had work to do and it igf you love each other then it is a 50/50 commitment no matter who did wrong.
2006-11-27 09:21:01 · answer #7 · answered by pookiepoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not even your wife knows the answer to that. But very important for you to maybe take control of the situation and to begin to lay the ground work for closure.
2006-11-27 09:29:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold on---I'm trying to sort out all the details you've given us.
Judging strictly on what you've said and the amount of effort you took to post this---I'd bet no.
She's probably moved on to someone that would take more than 3 seconds to ponder a life with her....
2006-11-27 09:21:20 · answer #9 · answered by Lori 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're about to be divorced and reallylove your wife try to compromise and change. The love of your life deserves sacrifice.
2006-11-27 09:20:52 · answer #10 · answered by Ariane R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately dude, you have to face the facts. Your wife isn't coming back. Sorry
2006-11-27 09:20:27 · answer #11 · answered by Shar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋