need to find legal assistance with complicated restaining order case which hinders son visit 4 years possible?

Question

my wife has continualy placed restraing orders on me for over 20 years when ever she and I disagreedon anything. to avoid getting my wife into legal trouble each time for purgery and other offences I always pleaded no contest because she always in a few days or week she would drop the order and say she was sorry there were times in the judges chambers she would admit she was only angry each time.now out of 4 boys we have 1 still at home my wife again is going through changes that have motivated her to place another order on me this time she wants a 4 year order and has showed signs that she is going also for a divorce and will try to get me to have to pay support and countless other bill and wants to have me have only supervisied visits my other boys can testify that I have never been domesticly abuseive and I have many character witnesses but I also have been threatened by my wife that if there are signs that I may win my case she will kidnap my son what can I do have no legal help

Answer 1

And so what is your question again ??????? And so instead of contacting a lawyer like you should've done long ago you choose to seek advice on Yahoo Question ??? It's your choice man, either keep getting screwed over by your wife or grow a spine and do what you should've done a long time ago............. CONTACT A LAWYER !!!!!!!!

Answer 2

I don't know where you live. But in most states, your wife couldn't get a restraining order unless you were abusing her. After the first order, a judge would normally refuse another without proof of injury or harm. If you know for sure that you have never been abusive to your wife, I don't' know why you wouldn't let her be charged with perjury and take her lumps so she wouldn't be still doing this to you. I'd get a good attorney, if I were you. (By the way, if she kidnaps your child, you can hire a detective to find her and she'll go to prison.)

Answer 3

You really need legal advice... but as far as your son's (the ones not at home) i take are old enough to live on thier own she has no right to say how or when you can see them...... as for the one at home.. if she divorces you and you get shared custody and he lives with her then yes you have to pay child support.... Plus, if she does kidnap your son when you have shared custody report her and have her arrested for kidnapping and transporting a minor across state lines..... I have been through something like this and i have shared custody of my son with my ex and he was plainning something like that and my lawyer said that is what we were going to do if and when he done it...... An I think that you need to get your wife some serious mental help fast... She could be bi-polar or serverly depressed.... Good Luck

Answer 4

You REALLY need legal advice on this one. Your wife sounds to be imbalanced but it will have to be put to a judge whether or not she should submit to an evalutaion.

In your favor is the fact that she has done this off and on for years. There is a paper trail somewhere of her running hot and cold.

Try a community legal service to get some assistance.

Answer 5

The only way is to pony up the dough for a good Family Law attorney (even if you have to take a 2nd job or borrow from relatives) and see if they can get psych evaluation done on her to prove her unfit and gain custody of the boy.