i got pregnant when i was 17 and we were a childhood sweetheart but he left me coz he migrate in states.i was young then and its easy for me to forget and forgive him.and he had livein partner in states and they had a baby.after 6yrs 2002 we saw each other again and he said that he left the girl.no doubt im still inluv with for da sake of my son but we got married but he went back to states to fix our petition.but i found out this MAY that after our marriage he still living with his partner in states and have another baby.and last yr he wants to divorce me bcoz da girl wants to.he choose that girl but that time i ddnt know da situation but he found out girl cheating.he came back to again and said sori i though i did sumting wrong.but few months ago he wants to break up with me again and her mom told me everthing behind i was shocked coz i trust him so much.he wants to come back to me again but i made a decision to stop between us.i admit im still inluv with him.we have two kids.HELP
2006-11-27 22:52:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tough situation.. but hey love and respect goes hand in hand, not just him respecting you but your self respect. Your love is not a use and throw wipe.... he seems to be ever so INCONSISTENT ! Get real sweet heart and prevent further heart break. It will be hard to walk away and out of this mess, but atleast your child will know that his mommy was a brave girl with dignity. Dont let any man, any person play with your dignity and self respect. And however tough it is better you accept that his isn't into you - now, rather than waste your love n life on something that doesn't care if you die ( he certainly seems that way) You need to think for yourself first, then for your baby's well being, hey he sure needs a dad, but not a looser !!! take care
2006-11-27 23:04:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Stop being so stupid. How can you say you trust this man when he has been lying to you the whole time. He went to the states and started a new life and you were not in it. Raise your babies without him. I'm sure he wasn't the best guy in your country. Go and find someone you can be happy with. Your ex has issues and he isn't thinking of anyone but himself. Don't waste your time on him. He will continue to run back as long as you keep taking him. You need to ask yourself if you deserve to be treated like crap or like a queen.
2006-11-28 05:03:55 · answer #2 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, from this guy's record with u, it's very obvious that he is :
1-a liar
2-a cheater
3-irresponsible
4-he doesn't love u or care about u
he has left u alone all that time and u managed to survive wth ur kids on ur own, so u know that u dont NEED him to survive..U love him?! well he's not worthy of that love, and love is not enough to make ur relationship work, especially that it's only from ur side! move on, forget about the man, he's an as***le..and if u get back to him, he'll leave u again and again like he always did
2006-11-27 23:03:02 · answer #3 · answered by GucciRush 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Stop putting yourself in a bad situation. you should know by now he will never just be with you. If the only reason you want him is because of the kids then you really don't love him at all you are just in love with the thought of being apat of a family. Time to move on and find someone new that will love you
2006-11-27 22:59:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sorry to say .. but this sounds like a 12 yr old's writing.
If you are genuine though, I wish you the best. He doesn't seem like a good father figure for your children, or a faithful husband.
Take care,
nemo.
2006-11-27 23:55:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You need to find someone else. He is obviously a looser. Men and women who sleep around like that don't have any character. This man wouldn't make a good father figure, think of your children, and not yourself. Arum
2006-11-27 22:57:17 · answer #6 · answered by arum 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
your husband is a player he doesn't care about you or your kids I'm very sorry to say he think the grass is greener on the other side but it not what never you do dont take him back.i know you have 2 kids and it very hard on you but what ever you do dont take him back you well only get hurt and broken hearted again.
2006-11-28 00:38:44 · answer #7 · answered by little_bear 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You don't need him! You should find you someone else who will be there for you and your kids.You cant loose what you dont have!He has been there for the other women.
2006-11-27 23:47:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
WHAT DO YOU NEED HELP FOR? NO ONE CAN TAKE THAT FEELING OF LOVE AWAY FROM YOU, IT IS A PROCESS! STAY STRONG WITH YOUR DECISION, IT IS COMPLETELY SOUND. THINK OF THE BEST FOR YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN. I AM SURE YOU DO NOT WANT YOUR CHILDREN TO GROW UP AND LEARNING POOR BEHAVIOR FROM HIS/HER FATHER FIGURE! THINK CLEARLY NOW, OF HIS UNDERHANDED AND AMORALISTIC LIFESTYLE...THAT SHOULD CHANGE YOUR LOVE FOR HIM REAL FAST. IT SOUNDS TO ME YOU ARE IN LOVE WITH THE FEELING OF BEING IN LOVE, YOU ARE NOT IN LOVE WITH HIM! PLEASE TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF AND YOUR CHILDREN...THEY NEED YOUR COMPLETE UNDIVIDED ATTENTION! PEACE.
2006-11-27 23:40:14 · answer #9 · answered by brxny2000 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell that two-timing *sshole to get lost and find you another man who will respect and love you and your kids..........it's time to move on
2006-11-27 22:58:36 · answer #10 · answered by Enigma 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋