If you found your husband was trying dating other girls, what would you do?

Question

Seemed that I had been cheated?

Answer 1

To prevent problems in the future and to be able to trust him again, divorce him, let him be someone else's worry. I've been there and have struggled with promises all my life, it doesn't work and is now to late to do anything about it. All I have is the "wish I would haves' and the aughts" it's all to late to live a full life, I let myself be cheated.

Answer 2

I would admit to myself that he wasn't interested in me anymore and leave. If your husband is having interests in other girls, then you need to leave or kick him out. Unless of course, you want to be treated like this and cheated on. You should get more self esteem and not worry about his problem. He seems to only be interested in sex anyway. Thank you.

Answer 3

get my facts right 1st, if he defiantly is, the confront him. You need to understand why, then you need to think can you forgive? can you get the trust back? if you can't then you may have to let go, if you stay you MUST be able to let it go, other wise it will consume you. Thinking, wondering every time he leaves the house ,every time you can not reach him on the phone etc. remember unless it is not your fault if he is going to cheat he will do it regardless, if by any reason you cheated on him and it is cheap revenge then you need to get out, as tic for tac relationships do not work and if he couldn't forgive you, the he shouldn't have stayed."PS I hope he is not. best of luck

Answer 4

First find out the facts before you do anything. Then simply ask him what is going on. You might get somewhere doing that instead of freaking out on him. If he is cheating on you...leave him!! You're better off with someone who loves you and wants to only be with YOU!!!

Answer 5

Then there is perhaps sth missing to him in the relationship or its simply his character. Find out what he misses or what is could be wrong in your relationship.
Make him jealous (For exaple with a friend of yours. But please dont make hopes to your friend with it. Tell a friend of you genuinely that you just need his help to make your boyfriend jealous).
If he has cheated you it could be that he isnt the right guy for you. Be consequent whatever you do in relationship. But right from the start or its too late.

Answer 6

Puy his stuff in the yard and change the locks because baby your key dot fit here anymore. Then I would procede to make the rest of his life as miserable as possisable.
PS my husband knows fully that that is what I would do.

Answer 7

I would beat the living s**t out of my husband and inform the girls that he is married and if they try something Kick there A**

Get Even Oh get even and even funnier do stuff to piss him off like without him knowing get his tooth brush and scrub the toliet with it and watch him brush his teeth and just bust out laughing

Answer 8

Start sleeping in separate bedrooms and consider a separation. Morally, you can divorce him if he's actually committed adultery, but I don't know if "attempted dating" would just fall short, or not. I think it probably would, but still don't sleep with him until you're sure this is resolved.

Answer 9

Tell him that you want him to be happy and he should go pursue his dreams. However you get half of everything and for every year of marriage a year of alimony. Then be happy to rid of the selfish jerk and get on with your life and be happy you didn't waste anymore of your time on him.

Answer 10

I found out last year in the fall. I felt like crap but then it didn't surprise me.

I talked to him about it but I can never trust him again, fully.