I mean if we lived together in Hungary do you think that I will face a cultural shock there,She will follow my religion,She loves me and I love her very much,But I am afraid of the cultural differences between us,,are we able to overcome all of that? Am I will adapt my self there?her family likes me too much,and I do also,I am little confuesed,So I need advise
2006-11-27 23:50:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I understand your dilemma; however I thinks cultural differences are good for a marriage. I am African American and my husband is of Yemen descent. He was raised in Tanzania. I think he has chosen to follow his heart and look at people for people. We sit and create our own world and not let family, culture or society dictate the love we have for one another. I love him with all my heart and despite the approval of my mother and sister, because of his Arab background. He stands by me and I will for him. If you stop looking at her as a Hungarian and start looking at her as the women Allah gave you; then everything will work itself out.
2006-11-28 01:23:45 · answer #1 · answered by Tonne B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important thing in any relationship is that both of you are the same religion. Would she truly leave behind the way she's believed her entire life just to be with you? Changing your religion is a big thing. Your beliefs are your foundation on which you live, where your morals are, etc...And you say that her family likes you, but what about your family liking her? Would they be supportive of you being with someone of a different culture?
2006-11-28 08:24:23 · answer #2 · answered by dancingham 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am Hungarian too and i think she will never follow your religion. The Arabian culture is too different for us but i think the good idea will be to adapt your self in Hungary its a great pleas to live!
2006-11-28 07:54:56 · answer #3 · answered by suzy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you took her home to meet the family would your family be happy for you or angry? If they were angry would you regret your relationship with her?. If you love and trust one another you can pretty much overcome anything.
2006-11-28 07:58:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am American and my husband is Arabic. HE lives in my country. Love can make anything happen, you will most defiantly have culture shock, but it will pass. Good luck.
2006-11-28 09:43:16 · answer #5 · answered by Muslimah 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes of course. It does't matter that you two have different cultures. As long as you two understand each other and love one another.
2006-11-28 07:54:10 · answer #6 · answered by guardianangel 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yea, no question. if you love each other, and you can tolerate each other when you don't, then you have a happy marriage there.
sorry you didn't say marriage, i couldn't find another word for togetherness.
2006-11-28 07:54:35 · answer #7 · answered by mintymoon 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
lol no problem you can do it........youre freakin out for no reason.....not a big deal.......
this is why America is so great, relationships like yours are very common.........i didnt even see any reason to worry when i read your question.....
2006-11-28 09:38:11 · answer #8 · answered by SpinKick 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the odds are against it
2006-11-28 08:01:50 · answer #9 · answered by txcatwoman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋