Marriage & Divorce - 24 November 2006

I have a husband who has very high expectations of me as a wife. If i ever did anything slightly wrong, he will come down on me like a ton of bricks! hard! He will mentally and emotionally abuse me like shouting at me and yelling at me, telling me to pack my bags and leave, telling me i am a no good mother and a useless wife, along with other unusable descriptive terms to describe me. I have been putting up with thiis for 10 years for the sake of my children and i am afraid i can't tolerate anymore. i often think of divorcing him but cannot bring myself to do it because of the children and what i have to face as a single mom. I am not working and have gotten use to a certain lifestyle. Please tellme what to do....

2006-11-24 00:30:32 · 23 answers · asked by angelheart 2

this man-boy is actually 24 but he spends a lot of time at home, and we dont know why he wouldnt get a job. to avoid being insulted we never dare to ask him. my friend who has a 3 year old son is in love with this guy. theyre both of the same age but the dude acts like hes 18....what should i do? can he still change?

2006-11-24 00:29:36 · 6 answers · asked by happybeanstalk 3

do you think that behind every successful man there is a woman, try to explore your feeling and imagine what it is like to be the person concerned

2006-11-24 00:26:56 · 30 answers · asked by kwalmi d 1

I am getting married next month. It is like an arranged marriage. We know each other for 3 months & are now in a long-distance r'ship. She tells me she likes for who I am & she tells she wants to be with me, but she doesn't tell she loves me. She said the love will probably come gradually after marriage, but at present time she does not love me. however, she does say she cares about me. also she tells me that she doesn't mind me having girlfriends now or probably after marriage b'coz she wants me to be happy. she's agreed to take care for me forever & that she will always be there for me. however, she also tells me that she is marrying me coz her family is saying to do so, but then she also says it is her choice that she is marrying me. She says she had no intentions of marrying now & that I came as a surprise.
do u think she will love me after marriage? she says she will try her best to a good wife to me & to see that I am happy but she is not confident of herself.

2006-11-24 00:25:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

or do we forget till the next argument comes round and use it as amo!?

2006-11-24 00:20:22 · 35 answers · asked by itgirl23 3

My husband knocked me up and went to go live with his gf and take care of her children. He left me with all of the bills and is currently making my life hell... just like he did the entire time we were together. Ways to get revenge please? Real ways - things that I could do would be fantastic! Be specific.

2006-11-24 00:15:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you are an maharashtrian living in india then only answer..............please......not other then that

2006-11-24 00:14:39 · 31 answers · asked by К°~т° 2

I need to know how to win the love of my life back! Though I really have no answer as to why it is that he had to leave his family behind, I really dont care because hes the best thing thats ever happened to me and I dont want to lose him over something that we could work out. He tells me he doesnt know why but all he knows is that it doesnt feel right anymore and that it is just what he has to do. Is it really over for us and is there any hope at this point because he is ignoring me and wants nothing more to do with me and I just dont understand how you can stop loving someone overnight? He has taken our car and left me to deal with all the finances and I know what I make is not enough to supplement his portion of our bills. Im scared because I have no way to even get to the market because i now have no transportation but Ive gotta feed my child and his dog. He doesnt even care that we had no food for thanksgiving and no one to spend the holidays with. How do I get him to come home?

2006-11-24 00:12:33 · 13 answers · asked by Candice 1

strip clubs and a girl there takes him for alot of money (through months) And he finds out later that the girl that he liked and spent so much money on has taken him for a ride....has a boyfriend..and he demads the money back......what options does the girl have??????

Does it serve him right for going to those places and hanging out with dancers.....or should you feel sorry ofr him and try and pay himback..

2006-11-24 00:07:57 · 23 answers · asked by akak 1