Marriage & Divorce - 24 November 2006

2006-11-24 14:27:20 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

A fellow poster here asked if she should be suspicious of her husband playing online poker with a particular female online person. Everyone jumped and said "he's probably cheating! kick him to the curb!"

I'm online a lot. Usually here or on another message board. Yeah it's a great life but I'm not doing anything wrong. At the same time, I don't like it when my guy gets into "what are you doing" online. I'm not looking at porn, I'm not chatting with any men, I'm just here reading. I've chatted with men online and played many games with men online. Some are funny as hell. I've had a lot of fun. But I'm not breaking any laws doing it and I'm not cheating! Why are we so quick to jump on some guy's case because he plays a lot of online poker - with women?

Marriage is a matter of picking your battles. If her husband is a good man otherwise, I don't see why he shouldn't have fun online playing poker. Only if it interferes with their marriage would it be a problem.

2006-11-24 14:20:42 · 10 answers · asked by Ade 6

He was my best friend and I still miss him everyday. I just wonder if he will ever make contact. Has anyone else experienced something like this and gotten together with someone from their pasts (wanted to marry.... but never did)? It still hurts and not a day goes by that I don't think of him.

We stopped being friends and talking because his wife would not allow him to talk to me or stay friends with me...(she was very controlling) so I stopped making contact. I just don't want to hurt for the rest of my life. Pain doesn't seem to go away! I wonder if he even thinks of me at all. There was a time that I couldnt ever have imagined not being friends with him. Now I don't even know if he thinks of me at all?! Do you yearn for someone that you dated before? Have you tried to contact him/her?? What was the result?

2006-11-24 14:20:28 · 10 answers · asked by catchernkeeper 2

My boyfriend of over 2 years was married for 3 yrs before meeting me and has 2 young children. He misses living with his children deeply even though he sees them almost every day, he picks them up or takes them from daycare and then he has them most weekends. We are now engaged and planning to marry some time next year or the year after. But I sense this sadness with him over not being with the kids. He doesn't want anymore children, mainly because I don't think he wants his kids to think he replaced them in any way. I am fine with that, but I just don't know what to do to help him be less sad. AND I fear that even though he cares for me deeply he may want/try to rekindle the relationship with his ex-wife so he can be with the kids fulltime.

2006-11-24 14:11:24 · 20 answers · asked by Lydia 1

It is not like he would find out. Do you think so?

2006-11-24 14:06:32 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

leave, problem is, HE ALWAYS wants it and its starting to irritate me, is it ok if he gets it elsewhere if he never see's the person again?

2006-11-24 14:06:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband has been playing on poker stars for a while and has a list of players mainly women he likes to play with . The other night he looked up one in particular by the name hot cold mama. After seeing him do that he blocked my access to his account. By the way she was playing at the same table he was. When I confronted him a few months ago, he became very defensive. I feel there is something going on. What are your opinions about this and what should I do ? Adultery is Adultery ! Thanks Everyone

2006-11-24 14:00:54 · 22 answers · asked by Erica 1

If I were to divorce my wife because she is involved in engaging in CYBER-SEX and talking filthy to a man online, can I have him pay me her ALIMONY PAYMENTS each month instead of her since he may have enticed her into this filth in the first place?

2006-11-24 13:54:12 · 8 answers · asked by bopper 2

and I do not have a problem with her going (every night)
I do have a problem with her 'lableling' me cause I drink beer. She started going to the group because of her control issues and she is labeling me as an alcoholic casue I drink once and a while (just beer). I mean fine, I am an alcoholic if it makes her happy but I do not like that she goes to meetings where there are people who are really having a problem with a loved one cause of booze. It is not the same. Since she started going to meetings she 'lets go' of all control which is ****** up as it affects our kids and the way we get things done. Letting go-to me -means not being responsible for your life. UNLESS you are with an alcoholic in which case **** THE BASTARD and all rules apply. Gloves are off. But there needs to be a differentiation between these people and myself. It is just not fair and is a cop out. I would welcome sane responses to my problem and not like dribble such as what my wife gives me. C

2006-11-24 13:48:34 · 5 answers · asked by artguy90291 2

My parents are divorced and my mother is constantly telling me to tell my father a message. I hate being the messenger but I'm afraid of my mother. What should I do?

2006-11-24 13:45:03 · 12 answers · asked by camille_897 1

...or even people who are currently married?

2006-11-24 13:43:51 · 18 answers · asked by funnyrob01 4

I am trying to figure out why my bf(i am engaged too) is against me trying to do some commercial modeling for some extra cash for college.He got very angry when i brought it up and blew up. He wont talk to me about it only saying he liked me better in highschool than now.I think i have a decent shot because i am 18 years old 5 ft 6 106 pounds, high cheek bones, olive skin, big dark brown eyes/long eye lashes,dark brown curly hair,Spanish, fine lips and a clear face for most part.But i want my bf's support and i dont kno how to get it.?

2006-11-24 13:40:40 · 18 answers · asked by Penny D 1

2006-11-24 13:34:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anthony J 3

he asked me how can you make more money and hwe is 9 any sugestions?

2006-11-24 13:32:38 · 23 answers · asked by I love jm 1

CAN ONE MAN BE MARRIED TO TWO WOMEN IN CANADA. IS IT AGAINST THE LAW, AND IF IT IS WHAT ARE THE CONSEQUENCES?

2006-11-24 13:31:15 · 16 answers · asked by mahaznatiq 1

I have some relatives staying at my house for the weekend for Thanksgiving and my cousin's husband drank too much alcohol tonight at dinner and slapped her around some. It was very upsetting, fortunately my grandfather broke it up and told my cousin's husband to go to the garage and stay in there for a while til he became more sober. He said he was really drunk. Do you think I should ask her to sleep with me and Jessica tonight? We are sleeping in the nursury with my baby but I could set up a little bed for her in there. My husband said it would be okay but not to push it because we don't want to make things worse between them. What should I do?

2006-11-24 13:27:29 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I will look at a magazine and see something sexy in it for the night time and i will ask my husband would you like to see me in this and he says"I would have to see you in it" I am not a genius or anything but I thought all you men like seeing your woman in a sexy nightie or something but he makes me feel like he doesnt want me in something like that.I dont look that bad i had 2 kids so I dont look the same as when I had no kids but he seems to get his enjoyment when we get the chance. What is going on I thought I would try to spice things up isnt this one thing you men want to see your woman in something sexy or do you have to be a model to wear it?

2006-11-24 13:26:15 · 8 answers · asked by 2wild4u 3

2006-11-24 13:14:21 · 2 answers · asked by yvonne bennett 1

2006-11-24 13:08:39 · 16 answers · asked by kitty cat 3

What do you think of a husband toward his wife when hey have sex he wants her to start it give hi all what his like oral sex and the work, but when she finish he has excuse like you don't smell good to down on or wash you a.. he doesnt want to kiss her says her breath smell like she suck on aman. turns his back oin her after wards never tell her anything about how she make hi feels and give a kiss on the fore head most of the time. lock the computer with a pad lock and blme her for taking his mail when he doesn't get mail but he has a p.o. box. they have kids together and she got so mad that she left him one day and he moved around the complex. What is goiing on with him any advice please help

2006-11-24 13:07:47 · 9 answers · asked by babymadison61904 1

and i'm not saying she's cheating - she's on a date which i set up for her to go on.

the idea actaully was orriginally hers. we went out for a year, broke up for a year, and got back. while mending we were very open about all of these wild fantasies we had. one of hers was that she's go out and explore her sexuality with somebody with alot of experience and then blow me away (to this day, i have a signifigant edge over her in the belt notch department).

once we stablized we stopped talking about most of it, and pretend like we never told each other. but we've often talked about this one, and it drives us both wild.

so a freind of mine from college is going to be in town until sunday, and it seems perfect. he's 'cute' and a ladies man. he won't be in town for long and live far enough away not to be a long term threat. and he's agreed to my conditions (protection and no rough housing)

tonight the big night. theres no guarunteeing she's going to do anything. but she might. its nuts!

2006-11-24 13:06:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

He doesn't like to go anywhere especially if he has to talk to anyone.I go most places alone or with one of my grown children.When the kids come over, sometimes he'll say hello then go hide in his computer room.Is there something I can do to help him be more outgoing.

2006-11-24 13:05:30 · 6 answers · asked by Granny 3

I've been married for almost 18 yrs. I've got this male friend who is also my husband's friend--we've been friends for almost 2 yrs. He has been coming over our house for almost a year. Anyway, I've never been unfaithful--i've been with the same man for over 20 yrs. I've fallen in love with my friend--my friend doesn't express any emotional feelings--that's just how he is--so I don't know if he feels the same for me. My question is I'm going through a very difficult time, and I'm really hurting inside over the whole situation. I've never told anyone how I feel--so he doesn't know--what can I do to get over him--how can I find out if he feels the same without coming out and asking him--which I'm not sure I should do---I'm going crazy here. I think about him all the time--how do you get over someone you're in love with and you cannot express it and you don't even know if they feel the same? Please help!!!

2006-11-24 12:53:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-24 12:26:27 · 7 answers · asked by MM 2

What should l do?firstly my live in boyfriend of 6 years fell out with me 2 weeks ago and moved back to his mums,he sends me text messages now and again but l really don't know where l stand(l feel l'm in limbo)today our cockatiel died(l had to watch her die for 2 hours because the vet wasn't open,,half an hour before they opened she died)l was crying,my 3 kids were so upset but my boyfriend was working to far away to get to us on time,now at 1.16am he is in town having a ball and getting drunk with his mates(he says l havn't to bother him because he is trying to block everything out)thing is,l miss him so much but feel he's taking the p*ss!any advice out there!!!!

2006-11-24 12:22:12 · 16 answers · asked by Jacqui 2

She left me but, has had seconds thoughts. I really truly love her. When I am nice she acts like she has the power but when I ignore her she calls and cries that she wants me back. what kind of game is this and can it be won? Ladies answers greatly appreciated.

2006-11-24 12:20:43 · 21 answers · asked by Johnboy 3

that he is a 12 year old trapped in a 30 year old body? I look at mine and think that way. When we got married and he was 20 I thought he would outgrow things. 10+ years later I am still waiting.


If only I would have listened to my parents... LOL

2006-11-24 12:10:21 · 34 answers · asked by Jennifer L 6

2006-11-24 12:10:06 · 24 answers · asked by SONIA B 1

2006-11-24 12:08:25 · 21 answers · asked by eaglewolf367 1

It may help to keep a marriage interesting and fresh? Think about it, you have already heard all of your spouses stories like 10 times by the time you are married for 3 years. Could some sort of an outside influence have any positive affects? It need not be physical, although it could be also.

2006-11-24 12:02:42 · 15 answers · asked by Ricky 2