2006-11-24 13:08:39 · 16 answers · asked by kitty cat 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My fiance is not an athesist but she claims not be believe in a God. She is the most spiritual person that I have ever known. I am a member of A.A. and as such have come to believe in a power greater than me, and I know for a fact that she sees things in a very similar manner.
2006-11-24 13:13:09 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I'm the "athiest" in our marriage. That's not my label of choice, but I am not a Christian and don't have a clear idea of what or who God is. I believe in being a good person and kind and respectful to all.
My husband knew I had differing ideas from his when we began dating. He told me he hadn't really been in church for years, etc., even though he was a minister formerly.
We probably should have talked about spiritual beliefs a lot more before we married. I am an extremely spiritual person - just not in the religious sense. I have a very serene and peaceful nature, loving and appreciative of all life, but I can feel sad because of troubles we have. My husband doesn't understand how I can have had a breakdown of faith in him.
He has come to feel that he needs to be more active in the church again and has all kinds of words about myself and my thoughts being "satanic" and similar when he's mad at me or doesn't understand how I feel. He has been so offensive in this manner, also praying out loud in front of me for God to help Satan get out of me (which there is no devil or demon in me or anywhere else!), that I can't stand any of his or his family's religious talk anymore. It seems so hypocrytical!!!! They make fun of other nationalities and religions. That's not moral. Moral is caring how other's feel and being the best person you can be.
At any rate, answering from the "other side", it is highly important to discuss things like this even if they don't seme to be a big deal at the time. It's better to test your relationship before marraige.
2006-11-24 13:34:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Does it matter. I'm an Atheist I'm 16 but I would feel uncomfortable marrying a religious person.
2016-02-10 08:39:18 · answer #3 · answered by Slytherin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but they could be the last person on the face of this earth and I would not marry them. I don't like "athesist", sorry.
2006-11-24 13:13:34 · answer #4 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No. Chances are you have a humanist approach to people and to life, are highly intelligent, and would be an excellent choice for someone to engage life with.
That may be the freethinker in me talking...
Best wishes!
2006-11-24 13:25:08 · answer #5 · answered by justr 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Apparently not because I married one. I'm agnostic myself, prove to me there is or isn't a god. If I decided to go to church he doesn't care and I don't care that he wouldn't go.
2006-11-24 13:14:13 · answer #6 · answered by Pandora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't even be considered. The marriage wouldn't work, & there best not be any children involved. God is very important in my life.
2006-11-24 13:30:21 · answer #7 · answered by Rae 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I would I am not a religious person but do believe in god. Everyone has their own opinion but I couldnt be with someone who doesnt believe.
2006-11-24 13:13:24 · answer #8 · answered by 2wild4u 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
yes i would because i do believe in god and have always done so . I feel for you or if you are thinking about marrying one you need to reconsider your decision. good luck and god bless and happy holidays.
2006-11-24 13:18:34 · answer #9 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
how do you feel about the Lord? It must be on your mind. having different feelings about God and Jesus will eventually come between you. too important to dismiss, in life and death. She is headin' for hell and that is really sad. read your Bible.
2006-11-24 13:17:12 · answer #10 · answered by crmkrm 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋