A fellow poster here asked if she should be suspicious of her husband playing online poker with a particular female online person. Everyone jumped and said "he's probably cheating! kick him to the curb!"
I'm online a lot. Usually here or on another message board. Yeah it's a great life but I'm not doing anything wrong. At the same time, I don't like it when my guy gets into "what are you doing" online. I'm not looking at porn, I'm not chatting with any men, I'm just here reading. I've chatted with men online and played many games with men online. Some are funny as hell. I've had a lot of fun. But I'm not breaking any laws doing it and I'm not cheating! Why are we so quick to jump on some guy's case because he plays a lot of online poker - with women?
Marriage is a matter of picking your battles. If her husband is a good man otherwise, I don't see why he shouldn't have fun online playing poker. Only if it interferes with their marriage would it be a problem.
2006-11-24 14:20:42 · 10 answers · asked by Ade 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Good on you nikki !! I like you spend quite a bit of my time on here but it is all very harmless. I am certainly not trying to hurt anyone only help if l can. What's the harm in that ?? I guess l have to agree with violet pearl just a little though in this case otherwise why has he stopped his wife from accessing his info. If he has nothing to hide WHAT'S the big deal ?? My husband is free to check on what l've been up to whenever he pleases, l like you have nothing to hide. We must learn to trust one another or what a sad place the world would be.
2006-11-24 14:51:48 · answer #1 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are absolutely right that just because your online a lot doesn't mean your cheating. There has to be a certain level of trust in a marriage otherwise it is not much of a marriage.The only problem I have seen is that sometimes a spouse wants to spend more time on the net then with their spouse and that creates problems whether they are cheating or not.
2006-11-25 00:38:50 · answer #2 · answered by hawkeye316 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For a year and a half I thought the same thing of my wife. she wasn't doing anything wrong and than on our 30th anniv. she almost cried, because she had met someone online and was in love, she confessed a monthe later. My life has crap ever since. You think it's ok and not cheating, when you play with fire you get burnt. All marriages have a weak point, get off the net and back into his arms. Don't take each other for granted.
2006-11-25 00:36:25 · answer #3 · answered by Rodney 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I understand where you're coming from. It sounds like if he is spending too much time online (like so many people do) she may feel left out. Jealousy is dangerous. Practicing proper time management should take care of everything for her relationship.
2006-11-24 22:24:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because he suddenly blocked her access to his account when she previously had free access. Can your husband look at what you're doing or read any chats/emails you write? Her husband isn't letting her do that anymore.
She wrote "After seeing him do that (playing with hot mama) he blocked my access to his account."
2006-11-24 22:33:04 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow...you sound like a total sweetheart. I didn't know there anymore women like you still around.
Sheesh...where were you when I was looking to get married.
Your hubby is one hell of a lucky guy.
2006-11-24 22:23:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Who are you trying to convince? Us or yourself? Obviously someone touched a nerve.......
2006-11-24 22:39:59 · answer #7 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are so right
2006-11-24 22:25:44 · answer #8 · answered by Adrian R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow...that was deep.......
2006-11-24 22:26:15 · answer #9 · answered by Asia 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes you go girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
2006-11-24 22:24:06 · answer #10 · answered by machele 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋