He was my best friend and I still miss him everyday. I just wonder if he will ever make contact. Has anyone else experienced something like this and gotten together with someone from their pasts (wanted to marry.... but never did)? It still hurts and not a day goes by that I don't think of him.
We stopped being friends and talking because his wife would not allow him to talk to me or stay friends with me...(she was very controlling) so I stopped making contact. I just don't want to hurt for the rest of my life. Pain doesn't seem to go away! I wonder if he even thinks of me at all. There was a time that I couldnt ever have imagined not being friends with him. Now I don't even know if he thinks of me at all?! Do you yearn for someone that you dated before? Have you tried to contact him/her?? What was the result?
2006-11-24 14:20:28 · 10 answers · asked by catchernkeeper 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I had a heart throb when I was young but married another. God knew best now I can hardly remember her. Once a bond is made it is for life. You may get another chance if she dies but until that happens you need to hunt another. Life goes on God will fill your void. There is another, look for him.
2006-11-24 14:35:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Normally these situations can lead to all types of problems, but there is always hope. I had an ex whom I hadn't talked to in over 10 years and always wonder if he had married, had any children, etc. And yet here it was the beginning of the summer and I contacted the last known place where I could reach him-his mothers house. You know what, he called me back two days later! We both had married at the same time and coincidentally going through divorces at the same time, and had no idea. We have since talked almost every day and have seen each other on a few occassions. It has been amazing almost like we never stopped talking. Keep on praying if it is meant to be it will happen.
2006-11-24 14:50:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I want to reconnect with an ex b/f who left me living in a trailer park with a pile of bills mostly utility that he never helped pay. Also would like to kick his behind to the curb for being the mama's boy that he truly is he now lives with his mama and his 46 yr old sister who is married to some guy in prison . I want to thank them for being something straight out of the movie deliverance . I swear to god if i did not know better i would think that there was some incest going on in that family a while back to make them so hillbilly acting . Way too clanish if you know what i mean . Oh well done with that episode of my life . good luck and god bless and happy holidays.
2006-11-25 01:42:51 · answer #3 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awe shame ma don't be confused or misled by the wife being controlling,keep u two from being incontact if he so loved u ,he would leave wify and kids if there were any and be with ur ***,and in this case if this writen sad story were cumn from d dude ,id say man ure so selfish to the women u made ur wife leave her and be with ur past love and so shall karma reward u the same u done into ur wife u said meaningless vows to ,well I guess the world we live in are filled with evil such as u but better yet evil beings know how to play the Good kind beings ,I wish u well and hope u find urslf in the process of the two women ure locked into ,Girl I guess only 1 was granted the key of blessing now were are u while he be with wify
2015-05-09 13:18:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, It happens..Believe me. My first love was from High School, my sophomore yr. Which was 17yrs ago. We broke up and he joined the Army. I married, had children and after 5 yrs of marriage we divorced. For yrs., i thought about my first love. What was he doing? Was he ok? Is he married? But in our small hometown, if u wanted to know anything, all u had to do was ask. So yrs later, i ran into him one night. We talked, laughed and we were married 3 mths. later. We've been married for 2 1/2 yrs and i love him as i always did, maybe more.
So yes, it does happen. And you never know what will happen. You just might end up as happy as i am with mine. Love is a funny thing. So just hang in there. He probably still thinks of you as much as you do him. At least that's what my Husband told me he did..Good Luck
2006-11-24 17:17:47 · answer #5 · answered by marianne 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IMO...without being cynical, what you're able to do is TAKE a while. merely for the reason which you experience which you have repaired your self does no longer mean that each and every physique else immediately feels that way. in case you decide directly to bypass by with attempting to rekindling this, then once you're on my own along with her on a date...er even though...you are able to tell her that have blended emotions approximately her and desire her that might assist you by this. the only way you are able to artwork by it particularly is thru letting her make it easier to be your self whenever you are able to along with her. Then start to place the strikes on her.
2016-10-04 08:18:12 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I reconnected and it was hard. If he knows how to get in touch with you I would leave it alone. It its meant to be it will be. I'm sorry you are going through this, I know how it feels. Try to find another way to keep your mind occupied.
2006-11-24 14:51:16 · answer #7 · answered by I'm Trying 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but he's busy living his life with his wife and family and is probably very happily married to the woman he vowed to love, honor and cherish. You need to move on.
2006-11-24 14:30:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If he's still married leave it alone and move on. His wife has a right to be "controlling"..especially when there are desperate women out there ready to snatch him up... You are not wanted and you don't belong in their marriage.
2006-11-24 14:24:34 · answer #9 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
When i go back to my country, I want to contant my first boy friend to tell him that, he is the # 1 looser in the world and i'll tell him to ****** go to hell b/c he was an ***
2006-11-24 14:34:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋