It may help to keep a marriage interesting and fresh? Think about it, you have already heard all of your spouses stories like 10 times by the time you are married for 3 years. Could some sort of an outside influence have any positive affects? It need not be physical, although it could be also.
2006-11-24 12:02:42 · 15 answers · asked by Ricky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My wife has brought this up a couple of times. So you not alone. Wanna take her out sometime??
2006-11-24 12:21:28 · answer #1 · answered by Slow Poke 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If BOTH parties are amenable to the idea of it, then sure.
However, IMHO it takes a strong marriage to survive third-party involvement, sexual or not. Jealousy and insecurity are ugly things to introduce to a marriage.
As far as "you have already heard all of your spouses stories like 10 times by the time you are married for 3 years", bull. If you're that easily bored by your spouse, get divorced instead of trying to "spice it up" by bringing someone else in.
2006-11-24 20:09:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thats usually how most affairs start, just a casual relationship, sharing feelings you would usually share with your spouse. If you have lost interest in your spose then you need to do what you did when you first met your spouse. Go on more marriage dates, yes you can date when your marriade. You can also force yourself to do things with her that don't interest you, and hopefully she will do things with you that don't interest her. These are things that usually keep ya'll apart. What did yoy do to get her and what are you not doing now that you did then. Why does the chase end once you get her???
2006-11-24 20:10:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating your spouce will put the romance back in your relationship so take your spouce out for a date night every week .
If you have children arrange for a baby sitter or neighbor to watch kids while you watch the romance come back with you and your wife
Try keeping Family from both sides out of business they only make matters worse even if they are trying to help.
2006-11-24 20:38:11 · answer #4 · answered by Support Our Troops 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Role-playing with your spouse is far more fun and satisfying than dating others .. to date when you are married is simply disrespectful of your marriage vows. Your question isn't fooling anyone, and very few are going to give you "permission" to disrespect your spouse!
2006-11-24 20:20:47 · answer #5 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you can, IF you want a divorce. Go ahead and cheat, ah better yet, if you are going to cheat, just get the divorce first and then go play.
Why don't you just try to go out and do something together. Put that spark back that was once there. Let them know that they mean the world to you, and MEAN it.
2006-11-24 20:49:09 · answer #6 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My hubby and I date each other and go out dancing. But we dance with others and I find that very stimulating. It give you a fresh approach when you come home and there's no hanky-panky. Until then, he only gets to date me! Godloveya.
2006-11-24 20:29:23 · answer #7 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be the kiss of death for your marriage. If you are tired of her stories, then take her out and make some new memories for her to talk about.
2006-11-24 20:06:04 · answer #8 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a bad idea. I seriously doubt that you'd look at each other the same way ever again.
2006-11-24 20:08:36 · answer #9 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
HA NOT OTHER PEOPLE especially if the other person is married
2006-11-26 21:12:07 · answer #10 · answered by K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋