My husband has been playing on poker stars for a while and has a list of players mainly women he likes to play with . The other night he looked up one in particular by the name hot cold mama. After seeing him do that he blocked my access to his account. By the way she was playing at the same table he was. When I confronted him a few months ago, he became very defensive. I feel there is something going on. What are your opinions about this and what should I do ? Adultery is Adultery ! Thanks Everyone
2006-11-24 14:00:54 · 22 answers · asked by Erica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
They are meeting for sex in real life I bet.
2006-11-24 14:02:22 · answer #1 · answered by pedohunter1488 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It sounds like that they are chatting and maybe he didn't tell her he was married, and since he changed his password means he is talking to her in ways he probably shouldn't maybe you should set up an account under a different name your husband won't know and find this woman and talk to her see what she knows. OR DOESN'T, I have had to do that with my ex more than once it was pretty entertaining what he was telling these woman online.. Also ask your husband if he minds you sitting down with him and watching him play. See what is reaction is, if he gets defensive and asks why you want to watch then he is up to something. Good Luck
2006-11-24 14:11:33 · answer #2 · answered by melissa052572 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once your communication breaks down your in trouble, unfortunately it sounds like he has something going on the side, but it is getting close to the holidays he might have info or an actual item he's watching and dose not want you to see. Again though I feel like from your question he is hiding more then just info, sorry Hun.....You can go to your Internet provider and get the ip address to witch all the resent email has gone and what time.
2006-11-24 14:09:20 · answer #3 · answered by matt v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its his way of getting away from being a husband and a father. maybe he feels like he's single again and it prob. makes him feel cool to be flirting with other woman. It's not fair to you, and the computer is just the first step. (if you don't take action, maybe advice counseling in the long run), than he's gonna eventually have affairs AND keep secrets from u, good luck!
2006-11-24 14:09:30 · answer #4 · answered by Butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to get a key logger and find out. Try eBlaster or something to that effect. It works silently on the computer. Set up another account separately to have the information sent to your new email and find out what's going on.
2006-11-24 18:05:04 · answer #5 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's hiding something.
It's funny how easily some guys imagine "hot cold mama" to be exactly that, rather than the 50 year old overweight gay man that "she" probably is.
2006-11-24 14:03:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can you get into a game with him from another computer to see whats going on at his table? Or if you could find out what his password is and get online and talk to her and make her think it is him and see what she says to him.
2006-11-24 14:29:32 · answer #7 · answered by samanthajane19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has nothing to hide he wouldn't have got defensive about you asking. Something is going on with him. Try getting your own account and asking her what's going on.
2006-11-24 14:07:21 · answer #8 · answered by Asia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has made is choice. He is cheating. It may not involve sex, but it IS cheating if you can't know about it. Where is his loyalty? It;s NOT to YOU.....
You need to lay down the law. Either get plugged in to the marriage, or GET OUT and get a divorce. Period.
You will get what you pay for, and teach him how to treat you....
2006-11-24 15:15:32 · answer #9 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't "allow" him to have a blocked account. Insist that he be open with you to ease your mind. Ask him to let you watch him play, etc.
2006-11-24 16:26:24 · answer #10 · answered by Raven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he might be a flirt...do you have a computer that you can go online and play too....just to see what he is doing?_
2006-11-24 14:05:03 · answer #11 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋